So I totally understand the enjoyment vagina owners get from clit and g spot stimulation. But I’m dying to try prostate stimulation with my wife. How do I bring this up
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Simple just bring it up in a conversation with her and as I did although ours came about after we had had anal sex I asked her what it felt like and why did she enjoy it so much her reply was because it feel amazing when it is done properly but it would be easier for me to show you rather than try to explain it if your curious about it and a few days later when we were having anal again she asked are you still curious about anal and I said yes I am will you show me please she did and started slowly and gently just with her finger then two she was very gentle until I got a bit carried away and started bucking back onto her she then said well somebody is really enjoying himself would you like to try a small dildo in your ass something bigger than my fingers and I kept pushing back and simply said fuck yes this feels super sexy and has me very horny.Thats how our ass play pegging adventure started.You can also try a little exploration on your own when you have your solo time I am assuming you have solo time but please use lots and lots of lube and when you think you have enough lube add some more
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Do you already masturbate anally?
If you do, maybe that’s a good way to bring it up - like “I’ve been experimenting with this and really enjoying it, I’d love to experience some of that with you”
Honestly just ask her, my husband asked me to play with it in the middle of intercourse and it just went from there, we now do it regularly and both get turned on by it
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I also have been intrigued about some prostate or anal play. We have played a bit a while ago, at one time I was fingering her bum hole when we were having intercourse and it seemed to turn her on more. She has played with me that way a few times however we did not go beyond just playing on the outside, no penetration. I am insecure about bring it up too.
Just blurt it out and say it’s been intriguing you to see how it feels
I might need to have several drinks to get enough nerves to just blurt it out.
We’re on our way to Italy on holiday in a week, relaxed, a couple glasses of wine, no stress from work……you never know what could happen.
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Talk to her about it. The worst she can say is that it’s not something she wants to do. You can still do it with yourself though 
Depends how open she is. Me and the OH just had a similar conversation tonight about pegging. We’ve spoken about it a few times in brief and he wasn’t keen. His thoughts are changing the more we communicate about it 
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We have really not been very open about sexual kink or alternative practices. I would not call her inhibited, but not really experimental. I am not inclined to ask for p-spot play from her, but maybe some external perineal massage as we had tried that in the past. It is a bit difficult to try new things these days, it seems our sex time has been dropping a lot, so we make the most of the infrequent episodes when we can.
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Sounds like the perfect space to blurt it out and say ! 
Honestly, just ask. We’d never tried it but one day recently my oh asked me to reach round and play with his butt during sex, he enjoyed me rubbing and asked me if I’d try inserting one finger in his ass, I got some lube and inserted slowly, the noises he made let me know it was good and as soon as my finger went fully in he came really hard. It was a bit of a stretch to reach while he was in me but doable. We’ve not done it since but I know it’s something he’d like to repeat and I’m happy to oblige for him 
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I’m sure adding any novel stimulation would make for a strong orgasm. I would bet my wife would comply with most any request I would make. Good for you for being open with your hubby. Do you ever think of just doing it without his explicit request ?
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Now that I know he enjoys it yes I’m sure I’ll give him a cheeky surprise finger at some point when the time feels right
I’m at a point where I want to try anal myself again after a failed attempt a few years ago (here’s my post about that - How to bring up anal after previous bad experience) So I’m very open to anything anal atm and I hope it becomes a part of our sex lives in the future. Starting slow with anal toys for me but him asking me to finger his ass was unexpected and exciting for me as he’s clearly somewhat open to the anal idea again too and who knows where it will lead! We’re in no rush though as we’ve made that mistake before, we’re enjoying the journey 
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I am always open to a surprise move, though we rarely go off script when making love. We have fallen into a rather mundane routine unfortunately. I would not think anal would be a thing for my wife, some play, possibly but anal intercourse likely not, as I am on the larger side of normal, and it would take a lot of effort to get to that point. And actual anal for me is not a drive. We absolutely should try to incorporate new stuff into our routine, just starting that journey seems to be a sticking point.
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Love p spot play started kind of accidentally well on my part anyway think OH had already planned it.She was giving me a blowjob and was playing with my asshole and was rubbing me when I was getting very aroused and gently pushed back and her finger slippped in and let out a little ooh that feels nice and OH then started sliding in and out finding my p spot and as she went on told her I was about to cum she pushed my cock deep into her throat till I erupted
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Ohhhhhh, yeah !