I catch her doing it now and again and I’m surprised it’s not more often as she does it so much! She’s very open about it and will tell me if I ask but most of the time I think she does it in the shower or with her Hitachi whenever I’m out.
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Actually got caught last night. I was upstairs and partner was coming to bed. Better reaction than I thought as she just joined in!
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I’ve heard my other half indulging herself when I was in the bath. It was ridiculously hot. She also accidentally opened her phone and porn was playing. My only wish is she’d be more open like I am.
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I never ‘catch’ my wife as she prefers me to watch every time. She also prefers to be there when I masturbate.
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If only more people had your attitude!!
The word ‘caught’ always implies that you’re doing something wrong which you’re not (not you personally 
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It’s natural, enjoyable and apparently very good for you so even if your partner prefers to indulge on their own or to share with you, then just accept it. It’s no reflection on their feelings for you and certainly not wrong.
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We are open about it so see each other doing it quite often. We use toys together but I’ll usually keep my longer toy sessions to enjoy on my own. If he sees me it’s usually as I’m doing it in the bath or shower, sometimes he will stay and watch but he sees me do it enough that he will leave me alone to finish off most often. I don’t see him so much but hear him wanking in the shower.
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She often wanks in the bath, I’ve seen her and she would let me watch but I usually don’t interrupt and leave her to enjoy herself in there.
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I’ll let him watch anytime he wants but it’s not always a big occasion, sometimes I just need to orgasm and can be quite discreet about it. I’ve done it before when he’s been in the next room or downstairs and he wouldn’t have a clue. 
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Not caught, I openly say I’m going play and she has a problem with that so just don’t tell her now.
I love it when my oh tells me she has made herself cum in my absence, always raises the flag awesome
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I never catch my wife as such as we like to play together. I really like to hear when she has played while I am out, but as before, doesn’t happen much as she likes to wait.
I’ve been caught many a time. It’s either the eye roll or the let me join in lol. Doesn’t really phase me being caught as we are both soooo open
Love it when I catch my OH masturbate or to put it better she lets me catch her
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Not only have I caught OH masturbate she has caught me but we never say anything I had my sis in law staying at ours about five years ago and have walked in on her as well didn’t stay just walked back out
Earlier on tonight. I snuck downstairs for some alone time and my wife came downstairs. Thought she had fallen asleep.
Never got my clothes on so quick and pretended to be ‘normal’ haha
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Living apart from my OH, We tell each other when we are going to or already “played”
I think most men would love to catch their other half and “help them out” 
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Why hide your urge for solo play from your OH? Talk to her and tell her what you like and why you need a solo orgasm. The comparison between fast food and a restaurant meal is a good way to start. There really should be no shame about masturbating. I hope that this comment helps you.
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I’ve just had a delivery of sexy lingerie which wife brought me and strap on for pegging made me hard looking at it. Do I put the lingerie on and have a play or not.
Have never walked in and caught her masturbating but would 100% love to and would join her in the fun
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When we were newlyweds, I walked in on my husband masturbating in the shower. He was really embarrassed, and I felt bad because we were having sex a lot, but I thought maybe he’d rather masturbate than have sex with me. We didn’t talk about it for the next decade of our marriage, and we’d both just sneak to masturbate and feel guilty about it… It made things really awkward for quite a while 
but we’ve since talked about it, and now I masturbate a lot. He’ll join me if he’s in the mood, and if not, he’ll make a lot of noise downstairs so that other people in the house won’t hear me buzzing away 
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