EDIT: OOPS I MEANT FtM, SORRY
Hi all,
I may be addressing a very small number of forum users here- not sure!
My partner came out as genderfluid about a year ago. His coming out was a bit daunting for me (as a lesbian) but I've been doing my best to make him feel loved, accepted and desired on days when he identifies as male. It has been really nice and interesting getting to know my partner's more masculine side, and he has been pretty shy about experimenting with male things, so I've led the way to show him that I'm fine with his identity. Lovehoney has been a great help!
So far we have used:
-Strap ons (we were doing this already but invested in a Realdoe for the most realistic experience for him)
-Binders and packers
-Boy clothes and underwear, esp. pieces that can be worn for an androgynous but not overly obvious look for days when he feels male but has to be around people.
-A shewee (so he can pee standing up!)
I'm wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience and has any more ideas on how I can continue to show my love and acceptance to my wonderful partner. I have been working on overcoming my strong dislike for all things penis and have successfully simulated oral sex which we both enjoyed- I'm considering buying him an ejaculating lifelike dildo as I know he'd love that but feel a bit squeamish about it... so we're working up to it.
Of course we are communicating the whole time and I show him I'm fine with everything through using the right pronouns and making him feel masculine as often as possible (he loves fixing things so I'll save up DIY jobs for a "boy day" for example.) I'd just love to know if anyone has any other ideas, and if anyone else has had this (quite specific!) experience.
Thanks in advance for answers!