Do you like anal from him? Or is it just a personal choice on his part? I would find the lack of interest in receiving anal interesting if he likes giving it to you and you taking from him.
Mrs. Val won’t do anal but does explore me with fingers, toys. I think there is more to it than just likely it or the act that people dislike as it runs deeper than that with her.
I respect it but I would be pegged by her if she wanted to do it. I have never asked because she doesn’t like the thought of it on her. Either way, it doesn’t make a whole lot of difference.
@Kitty-Cat01 I’m really sorry if any of my posts have made you feel this way. It would never be my intention to shame anyone. I’m not neurotypical and do struggle to communicate my thoughts at times and came come across as being very blunt.
I know I have posted about how I would like to try giving my OH anal and at the moment it is a no form him, I have also said I respect his choice.
Sorry if comment was not aimed at me. I just wanted to clarify that I do respect my partner’s choice.
It wasn’t aimed at you @Sehara I’m not sure who it was, it’s just something I’ve noticed in general on several threads, not just this one. I think your posts were fine, it was clear that you respected his wishes
Yes, I do. He is happy to give it to me if that’s what I want. I enjoy anal and I asked him if it’s something that he would like to try and he agreed but he would be equally happy if I decided I didn’t want to. The fact that he’s happy to give it to me doesn’t really have anything to do with his not wanting to receive it himself though, I’m just happy that he’s willing to give it to me!
You actually can lose erection especially if your leave your dick alone and simply focus on the prostate manipulation. Loads of precum but I find I actually go flaccid even though it is very arousing
I don’t. It continues to edge but never have experienced the big Prostate Orgasm. I have to finish on my penis and if you don’t start stoking it again, you could potentially have what seems like hours of anal sex and never cum.
Speaking of dildos only here, I find one of two things happens.
If my prostate is being nailed and no stimulation elsewhere as @valbowski77 stated. I generally lose my erection though not always.
If I’m receiving what would be considered more of a “deep stroke,” approach that also hits my prostate, with no stimulation elsewhere. My erection becomes…much harder and generally more swollen looking/feeling.
As for your second question, I don’t really have an answer to that. It varies with both methods above depending on what else is happening. And even if you single out an exact scenario to repeat. It still varies in my case.
I will say however, that when Ms.Anony is trying to move oral along. She generally finds shoving something in me expedites the process.
Let me think back to when my wife was pegging me . Up until one night after drinking a fair amount and we went back to our motel room and took a quick shower . We then got busy in the 69 position and out of the blue she roughly inserted a finger in me , I was surprised . Found out she had wanted to preform ass play on me forever , but was to reserved to bring it up . We jumped in with a top shelf harness that came with BIG and BIGGER plugs . We had a heck of a time getting the smaller one in . Then went with penis styled dildos of about average size . God I loved her enjoying her power position , especially dressed in kinky outfits . She bought a huge 9" that was a pretty good girth and she said " no way you can handle that " . Challenge accepted ! About the time she lost all interest in sex they came out with the Feldoe style that I thought would be perfect . We hated the harness , a production just getting it on and the panty based ones impeded access to her fun spots . I miss being pegged so much . My cock generally goes fairly limp because brain and body concentrating of all the feelings while riding a dildo or butt plug . I have kept up anal play by myself ever since . But lately I have been feeling more often like an anal slut . The prostrate massagers are OK , but no where near as good for me as my new favorite anal toy . The WeVibe 2 Ultra Egg has given me more pre cum production and almost all of my only anal orgasms . To get an idea of what my wife has to see when mounting me from behind , here are several mild photos . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/333. https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/907https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/1030
Only a few more weeks and my wife gets her spinal stimulator surgically installed . If it works as well or better than the test one , things for both of us will improve . I dream of the day I can dress up in my lace stocking and she can have her way with me and peg me until I pass out . She can tie me up and treat me like the hungry old anal slut I am .
Way to go - I certainly appreciate the stockings and dress up - but have her way till you pass out - heavy…
Anyway what’s your fav costume or dress when you are being pegged - my husband has 3 go to costumes which are maid (my fav as short dress) slutty secretary or school girl - all good but I do enjoy pulling down his knickers and telling him to bend over - the other night he was commando ( no knickers) I was disappointed so I sent him up to get some on - I just enjoy the power (he got extra spanking for that before I used sally strap on )
I love stockings and recently got a garter belt to add . I have one silky blue top that keeps my nipples erect . If my wife gets to become more active I will try and get her interested in me dressing up more . Short school girl outfit would be fun also official maid outfit . I would love to have a silky bralet . I used to love her dominating me , especially when I was dressed in stockings . I also hope I can get her to be more open to me wearing slutty outfits and really take control . I also hope I can get her to litely use the riding crop . Dream and drool .
Riding crop is good when paired with collar and lead
As for outfits get yourself a cheeky school girl outfit With hair (wig) as it’s such fun and I feel you would be a very naughty girl who needs to be punished - now pull those knickers down and get over my knee
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About 5 years ago I was the complete opposite- timid and scared- but after a very open conversation with my husband we found out we wanted opposite roles - I wanted to be the Dom and he was looking to be submissive- here we are now in a wonderful relationship
Im still waiting for the second time. Wouldnt go in first time. Feel stupid asking so im just waiting. Would only have another man up there if he was rich and paid me loads to do it
I’m not sure who it was, it’s just something I’ve noticed in general on several threads, not just this one. I think your posts were fine, it was clear that you respected his wishes
