Pegging advice

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Hi.

Very keen to try pegging, oh too. I have experimented a little in the past with oh’s dildo, but she’s now keen to want to try pegging.

I don’t want to put too much pressure on her, but I feel I’d love to try something bigger, maybe even more life like.

The one I’ve tried before was her bright pink smooth 6” dildo. I loved the experience but felt I needed something slightly bigger and ridged, for more stimulation.

Any ideas of what we could try without being too big, intimidating etc for her. I don’t want to put pressure on her, but I would really like to try one more natural looking and bigger than her smooth 6” one that eventually may give me a prostate orgasm, if that’s possible

Thanks

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From what i understand its not so much about the length but the girth of the dildo as the prostate is only a few inches inside the male anus and the girth puts the pressure/stimulates the prostate. I am sure there are others with much more experience than i that can advise you though.

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If you have a search for ‘pegging’, there will be a variety of topics and advice :blush:

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Something else to consider is her confidence as the one doing the pegging. My OH was skeptical at first and a bit worried about hurting me when I suggested something bigger. I went at her pace and we chose toys together that she wanted to use on herself and on me and over time we worked up to larger toys and her confidence and ability to wield them went up too. Now she pegs with a purpose and is fierce about it.

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Do not go too big to start - you want pleasure not pain

As time goes on you will stretch to allow bigger - but start smaller

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Hi @Dazeduk take a look at my thread on Pegging. There’s loads of advice and things on there. How often do you get pegged by the wife?

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Have you tried looking into some of the king cock dildos?

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I will take a look over the weekend. I’ll look myself first, get an idea, then I’ll ask my oh her opinion.

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I do fantasise about having something bigger, more natural looking, even colour change, but I wouldn’t want to make my oh feel uncomfortable.

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Does the choice of colour of the dildo have a big effect, what do most people prefer?

How about the shape, do oh’s prefer to use a natural looking dildo, or just something phallic shape?

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@Dazeduk - it’s up to you both what you choose- we started pegging using realistic looking dildos but then I wanted to try coloured / shaped dildos on him and we now only use coloured dildos - I like to co-ordinate the dildo to match my lingerie … I have a number of black dildos to match my wet look lingerie (when I’m dominant) but I have some beautiful metallic coloured dildos in different sizes

We start pegging with a thinner dildo big change up during play to a thicker dildo as his anus relax

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