Time to bend over for a good feeldoeing! Lol!
*daydreams*
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Yes, I agree it's a rubbish name. Perhaps if the Savage poll had been confined to those that actually indulge it would have turned out better. BOBing was already established as a term anyway.
If it had not already been established as a sex term I felt that "bonk" would have been good as it implies a knob back :-)
bigbrownblowjobeyes wrote:
Postillionager wrote:
I think it's a shame it's called pegging, it sounds like some kind of diy odd job. "Honeybase, for all your screwing, filling and pegging needs." I imagine it's such a wonderfully intimate act, if only it had a more romantic name.
You can chose to call it anything you wish though :)
Never one to let the name put me off....
You gotta beg for the peg :p
Ha ha, I'm not put off by the name, just thinking aloud. I'd gladly beg for the peg! :)
masterandslave wrote:
Time to bend over for a good feeldoeing! Lol!
*daydreams*
x
Mmm, a good feeldoeing; like the sound of that!
Gyrator53 wrote:
Yes, I agree it's a rubbish name. Perhaps if the Savage poll had been confined to those that actually indulge it would have turned out better. BOBing was already established as a term anyway.
If it had not already been established as a sex term I felt that "bonk" would have been good as it implies a knob back :-)
I follow your logic with the knob - bonk thing, I'm just curious (showing my ignorance here) what is BOBing?
WandA wrote:
Postillionager wrote:
I think it's a shame it's called pegging, it sounds like some kind of diy odd job. "Honeybase, for all your screwing, filling and pegging needs." I imagine it's such a wonderfully intimate act, if only it had a more romantic name.
Most sex acts have rubbish names... except for 'making love'.
You're right, mind you this is a way of making love.
BOBing comes from an early 'instructional' video on the subject called "Bend Over Boyfriend" or BOB for short.
Ah, I see!
Can I just get this off my chest? I'm becoming obsessed with the sound of the word pegging and keep coming up with odd variations. Right, here goes;
Pegging, legging, smegging, de-kegging, where will it end?
Captain Pegwash: a mythical nautical character who is permanently awash with seamen and shivering timbers.
Peggy Seeger: a folk singers' pudding made from sago and feeldoe.
Peg-leg: cramp condition sometimes suffered by the harness wearer.
Clothes peg: the practice of pegging in public while wearing specially designed clothing.
And then I've had "Feeldoe-ing," or Feelding for short:
"Welcome back to test match special; England have won the toss and they've opted to feeld for the first day's play" Lucky England.
Okay sorry about all that, I think I'll be okay now.
Any tips for a total novice and beginer as to wear to start with the posibillites of anla strap on sex? something i have always thought about but not done yet tips would be welcome on how to break me into it ??
Well I know my wife enjoys the play, she like the dominating aspect of it as much as i enjoy having my arse fucked, the pegging normally finishes a session where my wife is the mistress and im her slave.
She 'Makes Me' do things. have to say recently she has been making me do more and more before she finishes.
Frankie my tip for a beginner is plenty of communication, talk to each other find out what she is willing to do and you find out if you actually like it or just the thought, oh yes and finally lube, your gonna need lube.
I'd love to try pegging with my OH but I'm not sure on how to introduce it. We are still on small vibrators. I think a set would help as you can go up slowly but its just saving up for it. I really like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15697 these but its saving up for them.
How do you introduce the idea?
Call me shallow, but sex has to look visually good
A strap-on and a camera on the bed-side table is a subtle way to introduce the idea
headsouth wrote:
MasqueradeMinx wrote:
I'd love to try pegging with my OH but I'm not sure on how to introduce it. We are still on small vibrators. I think a set would help as you can go up slowly but its just saving up for it. I really like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15697 these but its saving up for them.
How do you introduce the idea?
I think you let him think he's introducing it himself! I guess you just spend a nice long time promoting bum fun with you. The more used to doing things like that to you, the more likely it would be for him to turn it around. One way to plant the idea might be to search out a unisex harness so he could DP you, and hope his mind wanders too!
I think that's really great advice HS!
Adx
Thanks Headsouth for the advice.
Can anyone recommend a good harness? I have never brought one and so I am not sure what to look for.
headsouth wrote:
We might possibly start thinking about the potential idea to buy one of these: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4751 I can't confirm nor deny the reality of that prospect
Your link was broke:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4751
We got it as a review product. Went no where near me but I was rather impressed by the whole system. It's reviewed by me somewhere. Well one Vac-U-Lock thing was anyway.
The strap on me and my wife use i think is brilliant, and my wife in her words "enjoyed it alot more than she thought she would" so must have been good for her too :)
One thing my OH found with the Vac-u-lok ones was that the edges of the 'peg' part that holds the dildo in place have a tendency to dig into her if she rocks back and forth a lot (which she does tend to do when she gets into things!), and she finds that a bit off-putting. She prefers ones with an O-ring style harness for that reason.
But I think for the range of dildos available, it's hard to beat the Vac-U-Lok strapons.
5mil wrote:
One thing my OH found with the Vac-u-lok ones was that the edges of the 'peg' part that holds the dildo in place have a tendency to dig into her if she rocks back and forth a lot (which she does tend to do when she gets into things!), and she finds that a bit off-putting. She prefers ones with an O-ring style harness for that reason.
But I think for the range of dildos available, it's hard to beat the Vac-U-Lok strapons.
I reviewed one of the VUL products... Not very well as I have a cock mind.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18072&reviewid=23626#customer_reviews
I was rather impressed by 'em.
The VUL product we tested doesn't have the plug either, it just pops right into the slot instead using the popper buttons. Rather than slotting onto the red peg.
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