Sorry if this is a bit detailed… my girlfriend has pegged me a few times, with a 4" toy that’s about the thickness of a finger. It wasn’t “hitting the spot” so last night for the first time we used a 6" that’s probably about the thickness of a “normal” penis.
Afterwards, when I went to the loo, I wiped my bum to get rid of the excess lube and noticed I was bleeding. In my poop this morning (8am-ish) there was blood, and I wiped my bum again at 13:00 and there was still quite a lot of blood.
So: some questions…
Is this normal?
How long do you think it would last?
How long is it sensible to wait before she can peg me again?
I want to get used to this 6" one… then move on to an 8" one that’s also thicker.
No bleeding is not normal, particularly prolonged bleeding.
If the blood is bright red, then it is likely to be either from a tear in the rectum or a haemorrhoid. If it doesn’t stop this afternoon, you should probably seek medical advice. If you start feeling unwell, even just a little, again you need to seek medical advice as the risk of infection is higher in that area (and you know, blood loss isn’t a great thing either!)
If the blood is darker, that suggests issues deeper in (and not necessarily caused by the dildo) so definitely speak to a doctor.
In terms of when can you do more anal play, once you’ve stopped bleeding and healed up. This will be dependant on your body and what the reason for the bleed is but probably at least a week, if not longer.
The blood is bright, you’re right - so I agree it’s probably either a haemorrhoid (I do suffer from them from time to time), or sadly a tear in the rectum. In fairness it’s used to being a sleepy one way track and not the thundering dual carriage way I’m turning it into
yes this can be normal especially if it’s the first time you have used this 6” dildo. The easy explanation of it is you’ve probably irritated the delicate lining on the inside which can cause bleeding and will usually take at least a few days to heal, so I’d refrain from any anal activity until then.
Some good tips for future play would be, plenty of lube, always keep it topped up, do some solo practice with the toy before going onto pegging, and take it slowly when being pegged
@rob4
As a woman I have been pegging my husband a few years now and it’s not uncommon- it’s vital you take things slow and from reading you took it from a finger type to a proper penis size 6 inch - while you earn serious respect- you need to slow it down as you will bleed if pushed too far
Suggest over the next weeks (nothing now for a few days while you heal) you play with a toy vibrator and slowly introduce a larger type inside and after doing this a few times try again - but tell your partner to go slow
As a nurse- my advice is go and see a Dr immediately. as pointed out could be a small tear, irritation or a pile. Get it looked at straight away.
Have you notice blood in your stool before??? if not then probably due to the sex toy so maybe next time use a smaller one and more lube and take it slowly to build up to a larger one. Be slow and gentle with Anal fun as it has a higher risk of infections etc.
Take care and hope you heal soon so you can have more fun.
It’s understable a little blood at first it’s like loosing your virginity but defiantly work your way up In Size it’s such a great feeling especially with your wife or girlfriend
Thank you very much for your helpful reply!
Sadly it’ll take me weeks to get a GP appointment but I’ll keep it under review.
I HAVE had blood in my stool before, but this was most certainly from a pile.
I really appreciate your reply x
That’s so sweet of you!
Thank you; I have passed a stool today without “incident”, so hopefully I’ll be back in action in a few days. Gf over again on Friday
It can be really quite scary with the unexpected i think youll be ok give it time, suggest no pegging for a week, though fingers ok?
I had a steel sound rod dissappear into my penis, that was omg moment but all good
For your next experience remember that there is no such thing as too little lube. Apply plenty and keep applying more.
Do you lie facing your gf? If not try this position as you can more easily tell her to slow down or add more lube, plus eye contact is such a turn on in this position.
