Just curious to discover how open other Love Honey’ers are to folks knowing they are into pegging?
Backdrop to this was a NYE party me and my more than just good friends partner attended with mutual friends and some random friends of friends - next day she confessed she’d accidentally let slip to a group of her friends that we regularly peg, and felt it was only fair she fessed up the next day. Dry January starts a day early for her this year
My initial reaction was I was mortified, not so much that personal details had been shared but more the revelation of pegging to people we know and it being considered as a little taboo by certain groups, but on reflection it’s an overreaction on my part (it’s 2026 for gawd sake, boy!) and we’ve actually joked about putting messages on local Facebook and neighbourhood WhatsApp groups just to offer a pegging advice service to the curious.
I’m now pretty chilled after the initial shock. We might have started a neighbourhood trend and look forward to invites to pegging parties!
Anyway, just curious how ‘open’ others are to folks knowing if they’re a pegger or peggee?
Not about pegging but we were at a funeral earlier in the week and my sister and i were talking to some other women that we knew from our childhood. They were about 7-8 years younger than me. One of them said that they dont have sex anymore with that my sister turned around and said looking at me oh well she does shes always at it. Well the ground just opened up beneath me not because i was embarrassed but it was the looks that they gave me like i was dirty. That is just normal sex, so no way would i tell anyone about our toys and the spanking, restraints and lingerie and i now know i cannot trust my sister with any of that.
Brilliant - know exactly how you felt @Wood-Nymph - I darent ask her what she revealed because it’s not our first rodeo and our pegging toy collection is quite large .
I’ve always knew she was a chatterbox but she went next level this time - just better check it’s not the same person because they definitely can’t keep a secret!
We had three other people we know well - a bff and a couple of sex toy providers - who knew we peg. Recently though, Sexterminatrix divulged it to someone else who came out and said they were pegging regularly, so I guess that makes 4, maybe 5. I was a bit taken aback at first when she told me she’d done that but hey, you can’t put the genie back in the bottle. Now, I’m thinking of a way we can use that shared passion to our advantage, maybe discovering some new femdom techniques we haven’t thought of yet!
Very recently, by way of reassurance, we’ve opened up to a couple we’ve known for over 50 years. They were going through a bad patch sexually so we told them everything we do.
Chastity, cross dressing, BDSM, pegging, the whole lot.
@rockstar as fun and exciting as our activities are with our partner/s, sometimes it’s nice to be able to have someone else other than an anonymous forum to share new ideas with, so long as you can trust them to keep it on the down-low, of course.
Kinda funny to think humanity was always very open about sexual exploration in history till Christianity came to the front and then people were made to be more reserved and feel bad for enjoying sex…. Now we’ve come full circle again!
Yeah Sodomand and gomorrah and the marriage vows all come to mind. Although i do take my marriage vows seriously, not that i am religious but a promise is a promise in my mind which is why i didnt do the obey bit. But what happens between two people sexually is their own business whether thats pegging or anal.
- know exactly how you felt 
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- sounds like an awesome best friend to have.