Would like to try this, just don't know how to ask her???
I used to love being pegged by my ex, such a turn on for both of us.... would love to meet another lady who was into it
xxxPhoenix72 wrote:
I used to love being pegged by my ex, such a turn on for both of us.... would love to meet another lady who was into it
Hello 😉 Lol!!
Seriously though, I envy anyone who has ever done this cos the idea of doing it is a massive turn on for me.
@British DJ You could start with this thread and its part2:-
@Corset_is Have you seen the episode of Broad City on this topic? - hilarious!
Gyrator53 wrote:
@British DJ You could start with this thread and its part2:-
@Corset_is Have you seen the episode of Broad City on this topic? - hilarious!
Is it on Netflix?
Yes!!! I love broad city... Love how she randomly said "I pegged" to Hilary Clinton 😂😂😂Gyrator53 wrote:
@British DJ You could start with this thread and its part2:-
@Corset_is Have you seen the episode of Broad City on this topic? - hilarious!
Aims85 wrote:
Yes!!! I love broad city... Love how she randomly said "I pegged" to Hilary Clinton 😂😂😂Gyrator53 wrote:
@British DJ You could start with this thread and its part2:-
@Corset_is Have you seen the episode of Broad City on this topic? - hilarious!
Tonight's viewing SORTED!! 😜😘😘
I love pegging my hubby. We have a few basic but need to invest in more. I love the power it gives me when his week at the knees with me deep inside him and my hands working their magic on him cock
My partner wont try it which is a shame because anal is amazing!
I need to dig out the harness again!!!
I have read with genuine interest all the experiences with pegging.
Until reading this thread i didnt even know this was a thing.
Apologies if i am being ludicrously naive but from what i read, my wife should start 'getting me ready' by using a smallish dildo first?
Is there a sort of best practice order of how to do this?
My wife loves doing it to me, she ties me up double doggy fashion and penetrates me deep and hard. She pegs me as part of my humilation in front of her ladyfriends who are part of our swinging group. When she is finished with me my bottom is offered around and I'm physically wrecked by their strap - ons. So the answer is YES they blooby love pegging.
Phil42 wrote:
from what i read, my wife should start 'getting me ready' by using a smallish dildo first?
Is there a sort of best practice order of how to do this?
There is certainly quite a learning curve for both of you! I would suggest you invest in a graded set of butt plugs and use these to re-train your brain that being filled does not mean you urgently need the loo. Aim to fell totally comfortable with a modest size plug in place for an hour or so.
You may also want to acquire an anal douche kit - the simple bulb & nozzle types work just fine and get used to prepping so you can be happy there won't be any mess (since relaxation is the key to being pegged so dispensing with any distraction or anxiety you can is worth it.
There is no such thing as too much lube - I put in some lube as part of my prep.
Certainly a good idea to start small as far as the dildo is concerned - the first time my wife pegged me I thought she had swapped the dildo for a small submarine!
Your wife will find driving the dildo a challenge so having her use a small dildo by hand is probably a good idea to start with (& avoid the 'submarine' moment!)
good luck and enjoy!
I would love to give it a bash but OH probably wouldn’t try it
Exactly the detail i was after thankyou!Gyrator53 wrote:
Phil42 wrote:
from what i read, my wife should start 'getting me ready' by using a smallish dildo first?
Is there a sort of best practice order of how to do this?There is certainly quite a learning curve for both of you! I would suggest you invest in a graded set of butt plugs and use these to re-train your brain that being filled does not mean you urgently need the loo. Aim to fell totally comfortable with a modest size plug in place for an hour or so.
You may also want to acquire an anal douche kit - the simple bulb & nozzle types work just fine and get used to prepping so you can be happy there won't be any mess (since relaxation is the key to being pegged so dispensing with any distraction or anxiety you can is worth it.
There is no such thing as too much lube - I put in some lube as part of my prep.
Certainly a good idea to start small as far as the dildo is concerned - the first time my wife pegged me I thought she had swapped the dildo for a small submarine!
Your wife will find driving the dildo a challenge so having her use a small dildo by hand is probably a good idea to start with (& avoid the 'submarine' moment!)
good luck and enjoy!
We love pegging. It all began for us by me getting penetrated a few times with fingers, tongues and toys to then a little role reversal. I had to start off slowly with my OH as I didn't want to scare him off but with every little step further it's been more and more enjoyable for us both. Now it's my OH that buys all the anal items and it was my OH who purchased our first strap on. It took some courage though for me to put it on and ride him the way I'd wanted to. Choosing the right harness is always a great start. I think we're going to upgrade soon too as it's always nice to try something new ofcourse. Never say never though ladies whose partners are not interested, something might switch one day and make sure you grab that opportunity when it comes. You won't regret it.
TandG wrote:
Choosing the right harness is always a great start. I think we're going to upgrade soon too as it's always nice to try something new ofcourse.
Have you considered a double-ender such as the Fun Factory ShareXL or one of the Feeldoes? These tend to be advertised as 'strapless' which does them no favours as they all need a harness to hold them firmly against the wearers clit and to allow for really hard thrusting.
The real advantage they have (and to my mind is the thing that should be stressed in all the advertising but isn't) is that the wearer gets not only gets more stimulation than with a normal strapon but gets much more feedback from the receiver. She can feel when he relaxes and opens up for penetration and also when, as he approaches orgasm can't stop himself from clenching onto the dildo.
Women who are into strap on sex (with men, women or both) get tremendous kicks out of it. My wife loves it at least as much as I do.
The harness we use regularly has an open design, so she can finger herself and rub her clit while penetrating me, and get great orgasms in the process. Having the base of a dildo bumping against your pubic bone can be very stimulating. Although we do not do pegging in a femdom context, empowerment and domination / role reversal can be great psychological enhancements.
We have not tried vibrating dildos / bullets, etc, they don't do it for me anally, and she is not interested either. One thing we are considering is a dildo connector, to attach a dildo that will penetrate her at the same time. Christmas is coming. ;)
We are waiting to try this have dabbled in the past but we want the double ended strapless sprap, waiting for an offer, fingers crossed this comes within Black Friday at some point.
Has anyone tried jiggle balls while using a strapon? Thinking this could improve stimulation for my Oh.