Pegging/Strap on - HELP PLS!

My partner and I really want to try pegging, he loves me licking, fingering, using small toys around back but as I said we want to try Pegging next. No idea where to start tho and need advice. Is there such a strap on where it’s double ended so I have some extra fun whilst pegging him? In addition, is there a strap on which He could use which would allow for him to penetrate me in both holes :wink: ? Keep looking on LH and other than emailing customer services I’m at a loss!

We’ve used the Tracey cox vibrating prostrate massager which he loves but think he would like something a bit bigger and longer… thanks :))

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I’m afraid I’m no expert on this, but there are Strap-ons, as well as Strapless Strap-ons. And even something like a Lifelike Lover Double Penetrator that’s also harness compatible. :slightly_smiling_face:

There are also some Strap-on guides too. :+1:

And the forum Search function is really good, so if you put ‘pegging’ or ‘strapless strap on’, etc into it it should bring up lots of topics to browse through (which can be ordered by ‘Latest’ too :+1:) while you wait for someone with actual knowledge to show up. :slightly_smiling_face:

And this is the last reply from your topic in June that you may have missed. :+1::slightly_smiling_face:

We have this and I love this so much :grin:

DP Cock Ring

No recommendations on the strap on front tho I’m afraid xx

Oh that’s perfect! Thanks :))

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Thanks Ian. Finding this forum really difficult to navigate!

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Ah, now @Bex84 has linked to that one I think I see what you meant now. :slightly_smiling_face:

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I wouldn’t go for anything girthier than he has tried before when you first try pegging; it will make it far easier as you both navigate this new way of play.

A harness and interchangeable dildo is a good option to start as you can vary the dildo as you get more comfortable with it. If you want stimulation for yourself, you could always add a bullet vibe (many harnesses have a pocket for one) or a love egg.

Strapless strap ons have a section that you hold in your vagina. You do need reasonably good kegal muscles though and it will take a little getting used to. One partial way around this is to use a position with you on your back and him on top.

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We found the harness briefs a good way to get around that problem.

@rockstar has a good tip for that too. I’ll see if I can dig it out. :+1:


I remember seeing a detailed one, but I can’t seem to spot it now. Here’s the Search results in case I’m being blind. :+1::slightly_smiling_face:

Update!!! So we chose the below which arrived on Saturday… it was bigger than we both expected to be honest, (yes I know it states the size! Ha). And was really difficult for me to use on him - it was definitely fun and we will keep going but think we want something smaller to help build up to this. I found the height difference from doggy style position tricky but we tried a few others too. I think it definitely would differ depending on what the ‘mood’ in the room is. But fun!!!

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35671

We tried a tantus ‘feeldoe’ but it’s not very flexible and my girlfriend found it uncomfortable when she started ‘thrusting’
I’d like to try a harness type strap on which would be more comfortable for her and then you can change what size of dildo you fancy using :grin:

Like many folk on here I’ve also got curious about pegging recently and have been encouraging my other half to step things up from some finger stimulation for me in that area.

The pegging briefs that LH sell look sexy and more enticing than many harnesses though I don’t know how ‘beginner friendly’ they are as they specify compatability with 1.5 inch diameter dildo - any recent pegging converts on here care to comment?

I’ve done bit of solo play with small butt plug and also tried a 1 inch diameter suction dildo though think I’ve reached my limit there!

You can use a smaller dildo in them as long as the base is larger than 1.5 so it stays in the ring.

Thanks @ Calie, measured the base of the beginner dildo which comes in at 2 inches, so looks like we’re in business, and decided to buy a pair of the unisex strap on briefs - looking forward to trying them out.

Good luck, have fun, and don’t forget the lube :grin:

hey we too are new to this… lockdown got us like rabbits and well trying new things… we have a number of diffrent toys now and i have found this new one really good. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29780 hope link works if not search Beaded Black Anal Dildo with Suction Cup Base 6.5 Inch this is good as it builds up. i am yet to get the last one in but its a good warm up befor you get the big guns out so to speak haha. good luck and remember. theres no such thing as too much lube haha