I’ve been curious about pegging in recent times are their any tips from expernced peggers out there. Love to know what’s a good strap on to start out with. Anything that makes the experience more pleasurable for both parties and anything else a big inner should know/ discuss before we start.
Thanks for your help ahead of time 
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Start small and build up as your body gets used to the size. Buy a small butt plug to play with first.
Lube, plenty of lube is always required to keep it comfortable.
Go slow and relax giving your partner full control over your penetration. When you are ready move up in size and let your partner have you when they choose. Half the fun is the role reversal and giving control away.
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@90scouple pegging is a wonderful way to role reverse - choose the harness and dildos well - you need to start thin and work up to wider
The harness needs to be comfortable as you will wear it for some time
Prior to pegging use butt plugs to open the door - and use a douche to clean the way
With pegging - use loads of lube - it’s needed
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Exactly what @Love_Stud_Too said and maybe some added douching before hand to ensure less messy outcomes 
Definitely second Love_Stud_Too and batjamboree’s advice! Warm up first with small plugs and clean out back there beforehand, get a relatively comfortable harness - just a decently comfortable one so that the harness discomfort doesn’t ruin the first experiences (no need to splurge on a real expensive one since you’re just trying out pegging, you can always upgrade down the road).
The first time (or few) I’d definitely recommend focusing on the ‘essentials’ of the pegging experience - the pegee being penetrated, the pegger having the experience of being the penetrator, the role reversal kind of dynamic.
Later on there is more you can add for the pegger’s physical stimulation, but the mental stimulation/doing their partner can often be more than enough for the pegger. I’m not going to recommend anything yet here to avoid overwhelming you, but happy to recommend some things after your first time(s) pegging!
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Exciting times and hope it all goes well for you and partner(s). Welcome to the pegging pose.
Tips
- Eat sensibly 24 - 48 hours before. You know that curry you crave, well after not before.
- Mentally prepare - think about what might happen and visualise different scenarios. Any hang-ups write down. Discuss any anxieties before time and offer reassurance to each other.
- On the day, prepare back there - lots of online material on how to clean. Keep a constant flirty vibe going for mutual reassurance.
- If you want, take a self-practice run. For dudes, maybe feel what the dildo feels like in your hand (calms nerves about size) alternatively, just gently push it up to your butt so you become familiar with the sensation. Gals, wear the harness before hand, it stops any awkwardness or fiddling about when the main event happens.
- Test the lube on your skin beforehand - burning or sensory issues are a definite mood killer.
- Set the scene- is it roleplay, role reversal, will he be sucking it? Any outfits pick and be sure to give the other person a cheeky glimps into what’s cumming (pun very much intended)
- Take your time, enjoy and I think the rest of the thread has enough details.
Let us know the results guys 
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