I’m a long time reader, first time poster!
Mrs 123 and I have recently got into pegging. It’s something I had wanted to try for some time but hadn’t had the courage to ask my wife if she was up for it. Anyway, one evening we were watching a Channel 5 sex documentary and the subject got on to pegging so used that as a springboard and what do you know… she was open to the idea!! We started of by using just dildos at first and then used the harness about a month ago and everything was great, no mishaps but I think that was more by luck than good judgment.
We want to make the next time a bit more special so my wife has bought some sexy underwear and we are looking for a few tips on how to make the experience better, especially but not exclusively on keeping clean so I don’t have worry about any mishaps!!
You could try using a small bullet or pebble vibrator slipped inside your wife’s knickers so that she gets to enjoy the experience too.
In terms of cleanliness you could try douching beforehand but we found that it tended to rake away the spontaneity so now we just get on with it and deal with any mess as it happens.
@123 - it’s a tricky situation but I agree with @rockstar get a bulb douche- cheap and works well
As for the lingerie - is that for you to wear of her - I’m a big fan with my husband wearing lingerie prior to pegging - very empowering for me to bend him over and pull his knickers down (then apply loads of lube)
Thanks for the feedback. The lingerie is for my wife but I would love to wear some too, although I’m not sure how up for it she would be.
I have a douche which I have used but didn’t use it prior to my last pegging as it was a spontaneous session. I’ve read on here though, that a douche can sometimes not be the answer and the best thing to do would be a visit to the loo and a shower beforehand.
I agree the cleaning time definitely takes away from the spontaneity. I rarely douche anymore for a really deep clean, I often find having a proper bowel movement and using a bidet, then keeping a butt plug in for a bit after cleaned up. After a while of having the butt plug in, ‘pushing’ it out with my sphincter muscles (over the toilet, grabbing the plug) is a good double check that it’s all clean in there for now and nothing more coming out!
I always douche prior to pegging, as you could say I’m a bit … anal … about being clean… (you can throw heavy things at me now lol).
In addition to feeling more confident about leaving less mess, I also use that time to stretch before proceedings commence, making it more enjoyable for us both.
@123 - for me I love my husband wearing lingerie especially when pegging - there are some very nice open back knickers here that allow you to be pegged while wearing the knickers
For me - it’s the thrill of pulling down his knickers before lining up the dildo for penetrating
I agree with @rockstar - nothing better than a well dressed bottom waiting for pegging - but better if it’s been spanked harshly before - first you get a sting then you feel the domination push inside
@rockstar@batjamboree Your scenarios sound amazing and l love to wear lingerie when I’m alone. I’m just really apprehensive about approaching Mrs123 in case she says no!
It may well be worth sounding her out though. It’s much more satisfying when your partner is accepting or better yet supportive.
My wife buys or helps me to choose all my lingerie now.
@123 its vital you talk - me and my husband were scared to talk but one day we decided to be honest and it was wonderful- I wanted to dominate him and he wanted to wear lingerie and so I agreed to assist with him wearing lingerie and he agreed I could dominate him as he also wanted this as well
Within a year we had gone from vanilla sex to crossdressing/ spanking / pegging and now we enjoy browsing for knickers for him to wear and dildos and paddles to spank him and penetrate him
That’s a brilliant approach @batjamboree and one that I hope will work for me. Keep enjoying what you’re doing. Sounds like you and your husband have a great time with each other!
@123 - so what size dildo do you currently like - my husband’s favourite is a 6 inch one where it’s a nice easy fit but we are working on 8 inch but a bit thicker
I love my new harness hand made in uk all leather - looks and feels amazing
We are currently looking at non penis dildos - we have one that has bobbles on the side of the shaft which he loves
Our current harness & dildo set is the Tracey Cox Supersex with a small beginners dildo and a nice pink 6” dildo. We’ve been looking at getting a 7 or 8” penis dildo. I can take the 6” quite well. So I think I’m ready for an upgrade .
Your leather harness sounds amazing!
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