Looking to buy a new dildo for my husband and want to ask those on the receiving end - do you like it smooth or with ridges / bumps on the dildo ??
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When partners and subs have been given the option after trying both, most prefer the extra ridges and textures on the dildo.
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To be honest I cant feel any textures once they’re inside me unless they are very exaggerated (like a tentacle dildo).
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I understand why we cannot, but I wish we could post or mention competitor’s products on this forum. There is a company in Nevada USA that makes fantastic smooth, ribbed, textured, bulbous, etc dildos. They claim to be one of the first companies to have introduced silicon toys for men.
I have had the most luck with either smooth, or smooth and bulbous.
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There’s always the Pander to me channel if you think Lovehoney would benefit from stocking them. @Analizer
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For a slow stretching session I find the plug style with 2 or 3 large bumps best, but for a more vigorous session I like my new 10inch long penis shaped dildo
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I prefer ridges or realistic dildos with veins. I also prefer those that vibrate. The vibrations add another dimension to the feeling.
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But is there something to be said about the sensations as the ridges and dimples as they blonde along the sphincter?
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Not in my experience. If the dildo is realistic and ‘circumcised’ as most are then I can feel the bulbous head as it enters and moves inside me but small ridges and realistic veins don’t do anything at all for me.
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I prefer dildos that look and feel similar to a real cock , especially my largest 9" . A bigger consideration is how firm they are , so you can really use them to massage the prostrate . I can really buck and gyrate once I warm up . Love the amount of pre cum I can produce while in this level of enjoyment . Remember , your brain is your largest sex organ , if what you are doing along with the visual excites your brain you can have extremely intense orgasms .
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I’d maybe go with smooth as bumps depending on how they are can be a little rough on the insides
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I ask the question as I find my husband likes length some days and the next day it’s girth and recently he wants textured dildo so he feels the bumps and contours when pegging 
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I can relate. For the most part I like length, but there are days I really want girth and feel the stretch. Consistently though, whether length or girth I prefer the realistic and vibrating didlo’s.
Question, does your SO like anal play outside of pegging. I/we do, we use prostate massagers and butt plugs during other sexual activities. Just wondering.
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@JMS55 - while as a couple we enjoy pegging he also has a prostate massage as well as butt plugs which he uses before pegging (often for a full day)
When receiving I like a lifelike with raised veins or a ribbed one. Much better than just smooth.
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I prefer realistic dildos with veins/rigdes for the most realistic experience and feels way better than a smooth dildo, although I can last longer with a smooth dildo. I really like being stretched and fu so I am more into girth than length.
So I prefer a shorter but girthy dildo like the Kingcock mega chubby.
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For the most part, we use smooth dildos for pegging though some have a few small ridges to help with lube.
Sometimes length is good, sometimes girth. Not too much experience with really heavily textured dildos but not sure they would add much sensation for us.
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For me, it’s gotta be life-like. Firstly, because it allows Sexterminatrix to (at least visually) feel like she’s pegging me with “her” penis, so ridges, veins and balls are a must. And secondly, because I like the mental side of being penetrated with something anatomically correct and not just any old cylindrical-shaped thing. It’s definitely a mind game as much as a body game.
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She has occasionally pegged me with a tentacle and a dildo made from anal beads but our go-to dildos are an 8" long x 7" dual density life-like dildo and, if I need to feel really full, a 10" x 8.5" extra girthy life-like dildo. Neither of them have balls as I like to get the whole length inside me.
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