So I’m well into pegging my husband and recently moved to an 8 inch dildo from his training dildo at 6 inch - but I’m looking at 10 and 12 inch - but more importantly I want to start using nice big girth
I have a new harness with 3 rings - 1 inch to to 2 inch - currently still using the 1 inch 
So I ask what are you using / receiving and what are you looking to go up to 
Mrs W here …
@batjamboree … seems we are a way behind you, at current times I use a 6-inch on Mr W, haven’t measured girth… I wonder what he would say or do if I ordered a 12-incher to use on him? I might just do that …
@Wurger - I want to get a dildo that’s big and meaty with great girth - I want to use the 2 inch ring or even the inch and a half - I may just buy it anyway to play with 
Mrs W here …
@batjamboree … I think I will get a 12-inch one for Mr W so on his next return, I can use it on him, even if we don’t use the full length the first few times … as you say it can be good to try playing with myself before he returns …
Right now the wife pegs me with an 8 inch she wants to get a full length horse one for the strap on to.use on me
We usually use an 8" long by 5" circumference dual density dildo but she also likes to push me with a 10" x 8" Lifelike Lover extra girthy toy.
If I go slow I can take the whole of the Doc Johnson Titan Intimidator which is 10" long and well over 10" circumference at the base.
To be honest I’ve no desire to go any bigger.
I am currently taking this quite easy.
Have got this in drawer ready for final size. Tried it on my own. Really veiny. Love it. Not sure what she will think. 
might be bit too kinky.
We don’t do pegging anywhere near as much as we would like too, so 6”x 5” is about my limit. Would love to push it further but it just ain’t a priority at the minute.
Would be a massive turn on to see some giant dildo on her!
@alboy - nice choice of dildos -
We have
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-silicone-dildo-8-inch/a28714g46713.html
in a bright pink which my husband particularly enjoys and
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-suction-cup-dildo-9-inch/a38287g70657.html
If we want to go without balls.
Currently thinkng about going up in girth but think the length is about right. Deep enough and able to do long strokes which he enjoys the most.
We’ve just moved up to this one…and we’re both enjoying the journey…to bigger and better…we prefer the girth rather than a really long one…nothing more satisfying than feeling my hips slapping his bottom
@walsh111 - that’s a great looking dildo - but is this dildo for you or him - are you getting the feel of this girthy inside you or is he getting it
Fun fact - Between me and my FWB we own more dildos than shoes.
Currently, we are both using https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-suction-cup-dildo-9-inch/a38287g70683.html
However, on my Santa’s list is: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-ultra-realistic-extra-girthy-dildo-10-inch/a38288g70658.html
Just deciding if I need to be or the nice or naughty list to get it!!
Daily it’s a girthy 10 inch but up to 14 inch sometimes
Currently have the lifelike basic 8" and 10". Most often use the 8" as my preference but the wife likes the 10" as she’s short at 5’2" and loves how the 10" one hangs to her knees. Most times I’m on top but sometimes she has me missionary so she can see the look on my face as she’s sliding in. No plans in the near future of going any bigger.
Welcome to the forum @SissyJoel
Most of our pegging dildos are relatively tame with 6 - 7 inches in length and 4-5 inches girth. I do have a crystal/clear dildo that gives me 7 inches of length with a 6.25 inch circumference and feels amazing, but Sexterminatrix usually just watches me sit on that one because it’s right at my limit and I don’t want end up in ER from an overly enthusiastic thrust! 
Maybe one day I’ll find the courage to let her use it on me but I don’t have any desire to go bigger than that.
Some of my biggest are in the links below, 7” length with a 9.5” circumference. The stretch this monster gives is unbelievable, and it takes a lot of changes to work upto it.
The next biggest is the king cock, how I absolutely love this one, it’s 10” with 8” circumference.
The only issue I have with these sizes is, they’re pretty much the maximum I can take so the Mrs struggles to really pound me with them. So we have a few smaller ones which are more enjoyable as we can really let ourselves go, and enjoy the moment. The Mrs also gets scared with the mega ones as she thinks in her words split me a new arsehole.
One of our favourites is the 10” L with 6” C from this set, this really does go deep and I can feel it go round that bend, that is an amazing feeling. However lately we invested in some of the fantasy dildos and these are now our go to dildos.
Now this next one is my personal favourite, because this thing gives me uncontrollable prostate orgasms, which my whole body goes into a spasm. I’ve never quite felt anything like it until we bought this, and it was recommended by our own @Lovehoney_Brenna. This thing is just unbelievable and it vibrates too, it’s only 6.1/4” in length with a girthy 7.3” of circumference, but let me tell you this doesn’t disappoint. The Mrs loves to pull this out to the head and ram it back in the widest point is around the head, so feels amazing when she’s thrusting it, along with the vibrations, it sort of explains why it does what it does.
We generally use 1.5 -1.8 inch diameter dildos got pegging between 6-8 inch length as this allows a steady motion of pegging in and out but we often work up to a 8 inch 2.25 inch diameter big boy made of solid silicone (hand made) - but that generally is slowly pushed in and left in for a few minutes- just too big to thrust
Unfortunately I have not been pegged by my wife in way too many years . Is self pegging a correct terminology ? If so , my standard two that are a firmer 6" and 7" that can really massage my prostrate . I have to be in an extra slutty mood to break out the fat 9" . I feel that is about as large as I wish to go .