Wondering if anyone else on here has taken the plunge recently and discussed pegging with their partner for the first time. I really want to ask my wife but keep bottling out of it.
My wife doesnāt really like the harness strap-ons either, by what she DOES enjoy (when sheās in the mood) is the strapless strap-ons, because she can share in feeling the vibes and itās the closest she can get to the sensation of having an actual penis.
If the subject ever comes up with you and Mrs. James89, it might be worth a mention. Who knows? 
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Ah @Kittycat62 thank you so much for this lovely message. Iāve only just seen it so apologies for coming across rude by not responding sooner!
This was a lovely message to come across today, thank you!
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I can always suggest! I think for her itās the thought of it looking like a penis on her that weirds her outā¦ so I donāt think sheāll be up for it, but like you say, if it comes up in conversation again then itās always worth suggesting.
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If she can hold the strapless ones in, itās definitely worth the effort. Whether it was the vibes, the kinkiness, the role reversal or the shift in power dynamics (or a combination of all of those), when we first started our pegging journey my wife had already come twice before she got around to penetrating me, so itās absolutely something she would enjoy doing, if she can get past the āick factorā ā¦ which can be easily minimised by douching/cleansing beforehand to put her mind at ease.
Fingers crossed for you, mate!
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The strapless strap-ons need very strong Kegel muscles to keep them in but we found that we could use them in conjunction with a pair of LH harness briefs.
The long part fitted through the hole in the front and the short part was held in securely by the briefs. We bought the briefs a size too small to ensure that they fitted tightly.
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