Kyle has finally agreed to let me peg him I literally CANNOT WAIT!
but has anyone got any tips?
There’s plenty around but maybe start here
There are loads of threads on pegging, search it in the search function and fill your boots ![]()
There is a ton of information about that on here,
But here are the ten most important things in my opinion,
- take it slow you don’t want to scare him off.
- don’t take it too seriously if you’re awkward with the strap-on at first or if there is a bit of a mess.
- communication before, during, and after.
- lube
- lube
- lube
- lube
- lube
- lube
- LUBE !!!
one more thing. - Have fun.
Relax, lots of foreplay. Maybe start with a finger or two and lots of lube. When we first started pegging I was usually so hyper aware of the act itself and kind of tense. So just relax and let the action flow freely.
Fingers, butt plugs, anal probers, lube and a lube injector are my go-to’s for a start. I would consider glass toys suitable for anal use to before using a full on pegging kit, glass toys have less drag than the typical pegging dildos you get.
The guy from my regular couple said he was so glad I introduced him to glass stuff before we worked up to full on pegging.
Oh well done - hope you both enjoy
As for advice- lube and get him wearing a butt plug beforehand to open him up as first time can be difficult
Let us know how it went
I’ve attached some links for toys that I’ve found particularly useful:
Plenty of lube and take it slow to start with ![]()
I second what Aj says plenty of lube and insert very slowly, once its in and he is comfortable then let the fun begin
Tons and tons of lube!!! Use something small at first to let him get used to it and stretch him out. Communication is key…. Oh… and lube! ![]()
Have fun!