Penis Extender Vote

[Fire_Ice1]

Hi, I emailed my long term wife some screenshots yesterday of the Lovehoney 2 inches penis extender which gets good reviews on length and girth and for mixing it up once in a while.

I’m average length and girth and we have great sex but she only orgasms via Clitoral stimulation / Clitoral vibrating cock ring / rubbing her clit with her fingers (oral when I go down on her) and when we do sex positions where it’s more friction grinding on her clit rather than me thrusting in and out like a porn star.

my wife replied saying the Penis extender won’t do anything for her. I replied saying some guys said it was fun to wear. She said I could buy it if I wanted to and we could try it.

She said she’s fine with my size but I’m not sure if she’s just being polite and secretly she would like the occasional larger and longer lasting portion…

Based on my wife’s definite guaranteed Clitoral stimulation orgasms that she loves should I:

• Buy the extender and see what she really thinks of it in action?
• Respect that she said she won’t get anything out of it penetration wise and not buy it?

[Pdm45]

Me and the wife bought a penis extender a few months ago as we both wanted to try something that really filled her.
We used it twice but she didn’t get much from it, so we haven’t used it since. I thought the idea of really filling her would be great for her. I have mentioned using it since but she hasn’t wanted too.

[Fire_Ice1]

Thanks for your reply @Pdm45 they’re not expensive so no worries there just don’t want to try to force something.

She’s had children and she’s back to being nice and tight.

In the past she referred to a former lover as “the baguette” to her friends but she said she didn’t enjoy it and he didn’t make her cum.

[Pdm45]

My wifes the same she has always needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm. If she says she’s happy with your size and she doesn’t want to try the extender I would probably leave it.

[Daisy1982]

We have selection of them.

I brought one as sexy stocking filler on Christmas and fun. Wife orgasms from penetration and I’m average size and never been an issue.

She loves the extenders and range of different feeling. It was hot wearing it and looks visually hot.

I recommend them , but like all toys it’s personal preference/experience.

[Fire_Ice1]

Thanks @Daisy1982 I’m still in two minds as to whether she would enjoy or not.

On another note I copied and pasted my topic post and poll abive to one of our school friends dad’s.

He said I think your phone has been hacked you’ve just sent me a rude porn message hehe doh!

My wife and I started using signal messaging lately this was a normal text message but the copy and paste didn’t pick up the new copy and pasted my above rude blog. Not to self double check the copy and paste before send. My wife wasn’t too happy but said I found malware on my phone and might have blagged my way out of it…

[Mr_Kink1]

Oooppps!

I had very similar situation with my OH.
I’m about 6/6.5 in length, not sure on girth but at a guess would say below average, whatever that is. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy with the wee fella, he’s been a top soldier and so far no complaints filed from any service carried out.
My and the OH have discussed size, and she has always said she’s more than happy with length, shape, etc., and dismissed the suggestion of the extender.
I do love to please her, and also have perfectionist traits - and thought exactly what you said, she’s being kind, and maybe she’d really enjoy being a little fuller with me.
I read the reviews, and thought hmmm I’ll get the ‘extra 2’ on the quiet, and on one of our kink nights, surprise her when she’s tied up and blindfolded. Maybe my ego took over a little by buying it.

Anyhow, I did, and after a while, had the chance to go with the surprise, and after plenty of teasing and pleasing, I put it on. Have to say from a personal perspective, it did look and feel awesome, with the expectation of lasting far longer than normal too I was in full Porn Star mode!
I think I got as far as putting the head in and got told in no uncertain terms ‘whatever that is, get rid of it - I’ve been waiting long enough already’ response.
Off it came and in I went. I did show her after and got told to not use it again, it’s sat in the box since.
My take away from the experience is if my OH tells me something, I need to listen to her and believe what she tells me, so a good lesson learnt. Never know, it may be put to purpose in future some time.

[Fire_Ice1]

Cheers @Mr_Kink1 - to buy or not to buy…?

I’m steering towards not buy. Especially after your surprise not going down very well.

I did have a very sexual girlfriend once and she told me lots of stories about her being with well endowed men.

I’ve been told by a few women that I’m very very good with my tongue.

But this girlfriend also said to her sister that I was the best she’s ever been with even though I no way near the biggest.

I’m a bit of a perfectionist too and like to please.

This was ages ago and with that girlfriend I had already orgasmed 3 times.

Our of the blue she got out a massive dildo and asked me to use it on her. I had never done anything like that before and used it on her which she liked and couldn’t believe she could take it.

After a while she asked if I wanted to have sex with her again but after a bit of drinking and 3 cums I couldn’t go again. But it was still nice to know that she wanted the real me after long fat fake one hehe!

[PKH]

It doesn’t sound like she’s absolutely against trying it out (unless I misread). If it’s something you’d really like to try, it sounds like she’s willing to give it a go with you. Even if she needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm, she may enjoy being filled up while having her clit stimulated… If you guys try it and it isn’t enjoyable, then you know and don’t need to use it again…

[Fire_Ice1]

@PKH - thanks. Yes I’m sure she would be up for trying it. Sometimes if she’s really tired or had too much to drink then she normally can’t orgasm which she doesn’t mind and I still cum.

Normally she cums fine no problems 1-3 times during a session via Clitoral stimulation.

Just a bit worried like what Mr Kink said that she might just take the head or the thing and it might be too big or hard or too cold or mentally not good for her and could end up being no go and ruining that current session.

She might open up and moan and groan and go crazy like some of the other reviews but the more I think about it after 18 years of being together it might one new thing to try too far.

I’ll still have a think about it.

My first ever girlfriend was great with her hands, OK at BJs, orgasmed from me oral on her but she always seemed to be in a bit of pain / not enjoy penetration at all which wasn’t great for my first sexusl encounter. She would always try to most of the work with her hands and mouth and as least sex as possible.

My wife isn’t like that, she doesn’t have any pain or grimace during penetration and does seem to like the closeness of it but it does sometimes feel like the penetration is all for me as she cums from Clitoral stimulation.

When she’s had a drink we normally have longer penetration sessions. For normal sessions we move around a bit quicker to get into her favourite clit friction positions for her to cum.

After she’s cumed a few times I can do what I want but I normally don’t go much longer as know it’s not her main enjoyment.

Over last year is so we and her sometimes where butt plugs so it’s a bit like double penetration and she doesn’t mind that at all and sometimes moans a bit more and seems like she has some good powerful orgasms too.

But our butt plugs aren’t very long. Maybe 4.5 to 5 inches insertable length so it might be true what she says that she might not get enymore enjoyment out of anything longer or girthier. Women are hard to read hehe!

[Mr_Kink1]

As you mentioned though, she’s not against the idea entirely and happy to satisfy your curiosity.
Subsequently, if you don’t try you won’t know.

Not the most expensive toy, and whats the worst that can happen? She doesn’t enjoy it, it goes in the box and you have that reassurance that size isn’t a thing as a bonus.
My situation was slightly different, my OH had said she wasn’t keen on trying at all, and I thought I knew best (although I told myself I was satisfying curiosity and justified my buying it )

[Daisy1982]

Maybe try.

Low lights, massage her and blindfold. Get her into a position of lying on her front and slowly insert from behind.

My wife loves just me and never any issues, but she really loved the extension and the fullness / extra length that just put extra pressure on some areas. The have nobbly bits/ribbed on them etc which just adds some extra pleasures like condoms have in the past. LH have some great options.

[Fire_Ice1]

Thanks people the vote is quite close at the moment 52% but and try it / 48% not risk it.

I’m leaning towards buy and try. It’s not expensive.

Candles, low lights, music, massage, don’t think she’s a big fan of blindfolds but she’ll wear one if I ask her.

I don’t think I’m as big as I thought. I thought I was about 5.75 inches erect. Only had a quick measure last night but think just over 5 inches…

Might possibly buy the £20 +1 inch extender as that says it’s a bit softer than some of the plus two inches harder plastic ones.

Plus 1 inch reviews say good for me 5-6 inches erect. Should take me to 6.5 inches length and more girth for her to try with lots of lube.

Even if she enjoys it lots it won’t make me anymore insecure.

I wingmaned for a mate once so he could get laid with a girl I didn’t fancy too much.

She loved sex. Once we had sex I cumed 5 times in a night with her and it seemed like she was having fun.

After meeting up for sex a few times I ended it. Later I saw her out and a mate of a mate was chatting her up and she saw me and said to the guy I had a small one.

I told my wife that story and wife said she was probably just being nasty and trying to get back at me as I ended it. I doubt she would have been having 3 to 5 sessions a night with me if I didn’t do anything for her.

It’s just a shame that all men aren’t equal hehe then it would be a level playing field.

My wife knows and doesn’t mind I watch a fair bit of porn and some of the men’s weapons are like missiles. Long, thick, super hard, can hit the women for ages hard fast in all sorts of positions.

Websites say they’re in the low minority but when I watch porn it seems 90% plus of them are super well endowed.

My wife always just says they’re actors, it’s not real life and that the woman might not even be enjoying it.

[Fire_Ice1]

52% to buy and try
48% to play on safe side and leave

I’ve just purchased LH plus 2 inches Schlong

Hopefully use soon to put my mind queries to rest… Plus hopefully my wife enjoys and I can experience feeling like a well hung porno star!

[threesomefunuk]

We bought the same one last week & my opinion was the same as your wife’s, toys aren’t my thing but we tried it this morning & OMG it was good & that’s coming from someone whose allowed to play with real life bigger penises

My husband may never be enough again lol

[Fire_Ice1]

Cheers @threesomefunuk - I have one en route. It’s 8 inches in total and girthy a LH mega schlong plus two inches.

I read a review afterwards a bit late - I did read reviews before but missed this one as it didn’t have many size details of canal insertable internal length etc.

Someone said they’re about 6 inches erect and the canal was too big for him and that it was a bit floppy at the end and not that great for thrusting.

He said a man would need to be a pretty decent size already to fill it.

He mentioned maybe being able to pad package fill up the space at the end of the canal from his penis tip to the tip of the extender so I’ll have to have a play and experiment as I’m about 5.5 inches erect. I was thinking maybe a latex glove rolled into a small ball shoved down the end might work but if anyone as any other ideas that would be easy to get back out and not fall apart then let me know hehe.

1. What size real penis’s do you normally get to play with?

2. Will your husband mind about you liking the extender / sexy toy so much?.. I wouldn’t

[threesomefunuk]

My husband is about 7 inches already & quite thick, I think we bought just the regular extender (its on offer for about £11 at the moment) and it was a bit of a squeeze for him but he said he kind of enjoyed the tightness

As you maybe able to guess from out user name we already enjoy fun with others anyway & his kink is seeing me with bigger guys (which isn’t that easy to find) so he’s fine with me enjoying the toy

I just wish we’d heard cocksleeves were a thing during lockdown, I feel like I’ve missed out on 18 months of extra fun

Hope you & your wife enjoy yours

[Fire_Ice1]

Cheers @threesomefunuk - I did recognise your name. So you’re happily married and have the occasional male threesome and some of them are big! sounds fun and interesting.

My wife and I are playing x confessions swipe sex card game app on our phones.

Last night over glass of wine before we had sex we were saying that the fantasy of a threesome is sexy but logistically might be a bit risky…

We didn’t mention it but I would (not that it will probably ever happen) prefer a FFM threesome my wife and another hot sexy women.

Might have to ask my wife next time whether her fantasy is for FFM or MMF me and another man hehe!

Hopefully this is the one your husband got for £11.49 - if it’s tight on him then hopefully it should be OK for me. Delivery date this Tuesday

[Daisy1982]

Glad you took the step @Fire_Ice1 and the above looks good.

Like the look of the size , shape , detail/ribbed outside and the fit looks like it would be good.

I’m gonna make a gamble on my experiences and wife’s pleasures with them that Mrs @Fire_Ice1 will love

[Fire_Ice1]

Yes hopefully she’ll enjoy and be good size no cervical bashing hehe.

Kissing
Foreplay
Massage
Go down on her
Use a few of my fingers

It’s bigger than me and my fingers so I’m thinking I’ll use a dildo a bit bigger than me and slightly smaller than the Penis extender to make sure she’ll receive OK.

She might be blindfolded or tied up too for the first time if she wants to try that.

Whilst I’m using dildo on her I’ll get her to give me a bj so I’m nice and hard and can get the extender on quickly!