In the early months of our male chastity relationship I used to wear a strap on to fxxk my wife so that she could still have ‘PIV’ orgasms whilst I remained in chastity.
We used harness briefs so my penis tucked away nicely below the strap on.
She much preferred a real penis and found the dildo too stiff and uncomfortable. In the end she chose not to use the dildo at all.
Perhaps one of the dual density dildos would have suited her better but we’ve moved on to different things now.
I have also wondered about this topic. My wife is not into toys to much only once in a while. I usually can last long enough for her to be satisfied during piv but sometimes she wants more and this excites me to much and I end up cuming early. I wonder how me wearing a strap on or over dildo when she wants more would work?
This has been an interesting topic to me as its often crossed my mind. I suffer with performance anxiety a lot, and while we can happily do PIV if that’s what we do first…I really enjoy giving oral to my OH and often in the heat of the moment I lose my erection - then if she decides she wants penetration it’s isnt always there the second she wants it - and while I can work on that, by then the moment is often gone.
I’m not sure how my OH would feel about this - but id really like to give it a go…also the concept of maybe being able to do DP with it excites too…
Also i’ve a sneaky feeling that if I bought a harness she’d probably want to use it herself on me
This is all great info, thanks. All things that could definitely be incorporated with me and the Mrs. I also have a threesome fantasy that I would love to act out like that!
We’ve recently invested in a hollow strap on and a penis extender sleeve. Both have been great. We use them because I’m pretty small and slip out quite a lot. It’s become quite frustrating for us both.
We’ve had hours of fun with them.
I’ve had some ED issues and I’ve thought that this could be a fall back if the ED became a bigger issue, which it hasn’t. But I will say this, the thought of doing it to my wife is a turn on for me. I wouldn’t want to do it all the time. But the thought of her picking out the penis she wanted that night, long or fat, or both and then giving it to her for as long as she wanted it is hot to me.
Might be a silly question, interested in getting a harness to use with our current lovehoney 9inch dildo on wife for bigger / fantasy play. When wearing the harness and dildo as a male, where does the penis sit? I’m not interested in chastity etc, and think I’ll probably be erect and excited when using the toy on my wife! Thanks in advance everyone
“When wearing the harness and dildo as a male, where does the penis sit? I’m not interested in chastity etc, and think I’ll probably be erect and excited when using the toy on my wife!”
As a male wearer, I find the uni-sex designed strap-on harnesses are perfect for what you have in mind.
We found my wearing a harness and dildo particularly useful as I am able to use the dildo to penetrate my OH:
before PIV
continue satisfying my OH after I have climaxed; or
for DP (without the introduction to a third party).
Harnesses incorporating two straps attached to the pad which fit under the perineum (between the scrotum and anus) allow the exposure of the penis.
The two straps of the leg loops sit snugly either side of the scrotum allowing the wearer’s use of the dildo, penis, or both (in simultaneous use), according to requirement.
With a few minor adjustments of the straps, the harness can be positioned high on the pubic area allowing for the penis to be employed as we wish.