Hi, has anyone with a penis, ever used a strap on instead of their own penis to penetrate a vagina having partner?
If so, why? If so, does the penis get in the way?
If so, did the vagina having partner like and or prefer the strap on to the biological penis?
Yes.
In the early months of our male chastity relationship I used to wear a strap on to fxxk my wife so that she could still have ‘PIV’ orgasms whilst I remained in chastity.
We used harness briefs so my penis tucked away nicely below the strap on.
She much preferred a real penis and found the dildo too stiff and uncomfortable. In the end she chose not to use the dildo at all.
Perhaps one of the dual density dildos would have suited her better but we’ve moved on to different things now.
I have also wondered about this topic. My wife is not into toys to much only once in a while. I usually can last long enough for her to be satisfied during piv but sometimes she wants more and this excites me to much and I end up cuming early. I wonder how me wearing a strap on or over dildo when she wants more would work?
This has been an interesting topic to me as its often crossed my mind. I suffer with performance anxiety a lot, and while we can happily do PIV if that’s what we do first…I really enjoy giving oral to my OH and often in the heat of the moment I lose my erection - then if she decides she wants penetration it’s isnt always there the second she wants it - and while I can work on that, by then the moment is often gone.
I’m not sure how my OH would feel about this - but id really like to give it a go…also the concept of maybe being able to do DP with it excites too…
Also i’ve a sneaky feeling that if I bought a harness she’d probably want to use it herself on me 
This is all great info, thanks. All things that could definitely be incorporated with me and the Mrs. I also have a threesome fantasy that I would love to act out like that!
We’ve recently invested in a hollow strap on and a penis extender sleeve. Both have been great. We use them because I’m pretty small and slip out quite a lot. It’s become quite frustrating for us both.
We’ve had hours of fun with them.
I’ve been dp’d and dvp’d by hubby using a strap on … when we dp .normally the toy which is bigger than hubby goes in my V and he goes in my A
I’ve had some ED issues and I’ve thought that this could be a fall back if the ED became a bigger issue, which it hasn’t. But I will say this, the thought of doing it to my wife is a turn on for me. I wouldn’t want to do it all the time. But the thought of her picking out the penis she wanted that night, long or fat, or both and then giving it to her for as long as she wanted it is hot to me.
Haven’t experienced this but can see the appeal. Perhaps others can share more.
Before we got a sleeve or 2 I used strap on on once with wife and she loved it.