I adore male lingerie, and I completely agree with a lot of the products available being... not the most flattering. From LoveHoney I’d recommend you check out “Svenjoyment Wet Look and Lace Body with Peephole Pouch”; it’s certainly got a masculine cut and is attractive... but as with any garment, the wearer’s body and overall style can make or break the look. (Personally, I love my 6ft1-3, very soft/slender boyfriend in women’s corsets because he suits them- I don’t think corsets would suit a very muscular man who might want to bring attention to his strong thighs with a garter belt similar to LoveHoney’s “Male Power Scandal Lace Micro Garter Short”). At the end of the day, it’s gonna be trial and error, but you shouldn’t be put off by it- wearing something and feeling great in it is worth the effort in my opinion. Why don’t you start with some regular underwear but made with a typical lingerie material to see if you like that ? (LHM All Over Lace Boxer Shorts or Male Power Stretch Lace Boxer Shorts).