This is a question that changes all the time. What was good 20 years ago maybe different now. Espicially if you are in a long term relationship.
1 Thing is a given for perfect sex is both being in tune with each others needs
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For me, perfect sex is reaching a point where my husband and I have absolutely no fear or shame in expressing what we are feeling and what we want to do. It’s about having total comfort and ease with one another. We know we can try new things, see if we like them or not, and life goes on, with or without those things. It’s sex without taboos. As the years go by, we keep discovering more and more things about ourselves that truly excite us; for me, perfect sex is all of that. A few years ago, we had little communication about sex—the sex itself wasn’t that bad, but it became perfect as we discovered each other more deeply.
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