What is perfect sex? How do you make sex the best it can possibly be?
When someone reads this, what do you recommend is the most important components that would help people achieve their best sex life?
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If someone had asked me 10, 20, 30, 40, or 45 years ago i would have said that our sex was perfect then, but its so much better now.
The difference?
In the last 5 years we’ve started talking to each other openly about what we really want and need from each other.
Don’t leave it as long as we did to communicate openly and honestly.
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Yes I agree with @rockstar you got to talk about it to have the best possible sex you can ever have with each other.
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What do you talk about? Positions? Toys? foreplay?
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Yes @Natalie talk about your desires, what you would like to be done to you and what you would like to do. But also don’t forget to talk about the things that turn you off and definitely no go situations.
Basically getting talking about everything, you don’t have to talk about it all in one go, gradually talk about things, try to think of things you or your partner might like, dressing up/role play/scent play etc…
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Definitely talking about what you want and don’t be afraid to experiment I wish we had been more adventurous 20 years ago as our sex
Life is a million times more exciting now and we feel more sexually connected now than ever we were back then .
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Being comfortable with yourselves is definitely key
I’ve so much more confidence in my own body and know my emotions so much better in the last 5 years or so
It’s a contentious topic I know but I think my confidence has been helped by the cam fun I have with other guys
I’m not afraid to enjoy sex anymore and express myself as I get excited and show my wife how much she turns me on and what I enjoy
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this is OH. We tell each other what feels good and what doesn’t. We take our time - there’s no rush to orgasm. Afterwards we cuddle - except after anal - then there’s some cliean up first.
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Perfect sex can look like many different things to many different people, at the end of the day I think it’s important to have honest and open communication with your partner! Personally, I feel that for me for sex to be perfect it needs to involve deep intimacy. I want to feel safe both emotionally and physically and I want to be loved. For sex to be absolutely perfect for me I think I need aftercare
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I don’t think there is a one set guide to having perfect sex as sex with a partner is more of a unique journey into the exploration of what both enjoys and vibes from…
but maybe the base lines would be good floor play to warm up, oral, intercourse and then tenderness affection after with some pillow talk?!
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Perfect sex for us was the simultaneous orgasm we experienced on our honeymoon.
It has only occurred a few times since but to us as it was the first time it happened, it was such Perfect Sex that we couldn’t believe it.
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I don’t think there is such a thing as perfect sex. There is perfect sex for that moment, but what is perfect now may not be perfect later. Such is desire and horniness.
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What makes sex perfect then? 