I've been checking out the posts and not come across much that informs on playing with your perineum (might be my impatience and if they are there please direct me).
I have been into prostate play for about a year now and had little or no success with internal stimulation. I bought several different toys, from proper prostate toys to butt plugs and couldn't quite find the right spot. I came to the conclusion that for me the big-o may not be possible.
Fortunately I came across an article where the author bestows the joy of perineum (or external) stimulation. In fact he went on to say that for him this was more pleasurable that direct or internal stimulation which didn't fill him with joy at the thought of 'sticking something up his bum'.
On a whim I bought a lovehoney magic wand and WOW. The first time of using it I was quivering within 5 minutes and experiencing several mini-o's.
Over a period of months I have gotten better at what works for me and now regularly enjoy dry orgasms and with being a bit of a leaker squirting orgasms as well (not ejaculation as I can have 2 or 3 within the space of a couple of minutes).
If either yourself (if male) or your OH is a bit unsure or uneasy about putting things in your bum give this a go first. You wont be disappointed
Thank you for your post as I actually found this really interesting! The perineum is not mentioned very often and a lot of men definitely get stimulation from it. I would actually like to learn a lot more about it too.
Glad that this little titbit of info is being useful and thanks all for your replys.
I would add that everyone is different so what works for me might not for someone else but it is all about the exploration (either by yourself or even better with your OH). I prefer the wand on the lowest setting (gives more of a rumbly feeling) rather than the intense buzz when you get towards full power. As for where, again every man is built differently but the general location is between the end of the ball sack and the anus (the area sometimes referred to as the taint). With being more of a massage this can be a good way to introduce your man to the pleasure of the prostate and if the feelings are initially too weird easy to stop and concentrate on the penis 
My oh loves me using my magic wand on his perineum....he also loves me licking, sucking and nibbling it (his perineum not the wand) ! Lol A wand held there while I give him a blowjob is guaranteed to give him a very explosive orgasm and me a great mouthful 😉xx
My oh loves me using my magic wand on his perineum....he also loves me licking, sucking and nibbling it (his perineum not the wand) ! Lol A wand held there while I give him a blowjob is guaranteed to give him a very explosive orgasm and me a great mouthful 😉xx
Ha, ha Terri you made me laugh a lot - the thought of you nibbling on the wand is hilarious!
Totally agree Tigerpunk...wrote a review of the black wand where I sang the praises of perineal pleasure. Much more intense for me than internal stimulation. In fact I can sometimes just rub and massage perineum with my fingers, and cum without stroking my cock at all 😉
My oh loves me using my magic wand on his perineum....he also loves me licking, sucking and nibbling it (his perineum not the wand) ! Lol A wand held there while I give him a blowjob is guaranteed to give him a very explosive orgasm and me a great mouthful 😉xx
Terri JJ, I do have to recommend you on your post. You do write some very good and interesting things on your post. Very well done job. Congrats.
I know this is not about the topic, but just had to congrats Terri on all her posts. Some are very thoughtful and entertaining and funny.
I think I may have had my first perinuem orgasm earlier!
I’ve been close but have never achieved a prostrate orgasms male g spot but read reaching it externally can be a bit easier.
I had my awesome hard plastic aneros prograsm but plug in.
I’ve got a Lovehoney vibrating g-spot dildo.
I read it’s the area 1 inch above your anus on the taint, before I was massaging a bit too high.
I’ve never used a vibrator on it before.
I tried pushing it in holding, contracting moving up and down then I really felt like I was going to cum lots.
I was laying on bed and I cum a lot normally and didn’t have enough stuff down to stop a mess so I stopped using the vibrator completely.
But then a few seconds later a lot of miking prostate style cum came out which I could just about keep on my belly (need more towels and tissue ready next time).
It felt really good and didn’t take too long to achieve once I got the right spot and pleasure.
Ive got a few hours off now to recharge before having sex with my wife later
Hi @Daisy1982 - I tried again for the second time a few days ago and achieved a perineum orgasm very easily. I was a bit pushed for time so it was quite handy really hehe.
Aneros progasm but plug in
Lovehoney vibrating g spot dildo on highest constant vibrate
Rubbing pushing stroking around my perineum then I came really milky pre cum prostrate milking cum I wasn’t fully hard when it happened.
Then went into stimulating other areas, watching more porn and using vibrating masturbtaor and came again so a nice 2 4 1
think I might have to give that ago. So achieved all through external pleasure and pressure. 
will give it a go and take a look at the toy suggestion 
