So, it’s been awhile since I showed up at a dungeon solo. I did recently go to a space I had not heard of, it was a small group of people and had a decent time. But this weekend will be the fist time going to a larger event all by myself. Very scary!
The event is a FLR event and Men are not allowed to Top. I’ve been previously where I meet with a good friend of mine, however she won’t be there so by going it will be a little strange.
I always found pick-up play to be hit and miss and I depend on energy when I play so just finding a willing sole to play with meant you had to do some intense negotiating before walking into a room. Not to say I wasn’t good at it, I kind of was, but that was finding someone who wanted me to Top them not the other way around.
If I go to this event it is with the purpose of finding a willing Domme to spank me or to partcipate in some inpact play. That feels a little daunting. So any ideas or suggestions on approaching besides…”Hey I was looking at your lap and was wondering…” or “ You know what makes a really good lap warmer…”
Well given that I’m not much for scene wear, probably going to something simple, especially since it’s been hot as hell here. I have this militaryish vest and wide led leg jeans that work together. So hopefully will get accross the idea I’m engaable adjacent vibe. I mean I’d go naked, but I’m a pretty shy guy.
Well as it turns out my regular play partner for this event has arranged a meetup for me. A good news bad news situation…Good news: I know this person and she’s very experienced…Bad News: She has specific instructions to address a little matter I have with my friend.
Well at least the pick-up play dillema is solved.