On some sites I’ve seen “Pizza Dares” & similar dares.
If you’ve not seen this, this is where a woman sets up a secret camera, then answers the door to a pizza delivery man, “accidentally” dropping her bath towel, answering the door naked/topless or bending over in just a towel -
Theres a few other variants, but you get the drift.
The pizza guy normally has a face like a Cheshire cat, (who wudn lol)
& most are courteous and have a bit of a look and depart.
Who else has done something similar, perhaps deliberately going naked so a neighbor or friend /stranger gets a eye full (in a respectful way, not talking dirty old men in raincoats etc)
Yeah, that’s the irony isn’t it - if it’s an attractive lady dropping her towel everyone assumes it’s welcome and a good joke - “what guy wouldn’t want an eyeful?” - but when you start thinking about any Tom, Dick, or Harry dropping trow on a woman at the door you start seeing things differently.
Consent is sexy and forcing your exposure on an unwitting victim isn’t cool.
I agree that in the wrong place at the wrong time this could be awkward, even for men.
But societies view on naked women is very different to that of men.
Probably because a naked man maybe seen as threatening or predatory.
Also naked women in the media is hugely more common than men.
Also because “most” men would jump at the chance of seeing a woman naked, whereas many women would Not like to see men naked.
Altho what you say maybe morally correct, we all know that’s not the case in reality.
This post was supposed to be about asking people to share their stories, not debate the moral implications of men seeing women naked
I have often thought of doing this - in our case it would be the Chinese take-away delivery guy - I will have a chat with Pen and see if one or both of us could do it - would need a bit of vino first though …
Done this in a role play situation, Actually we both did it on different occasions. We lived in a flat, below was a business that closed on weekends, so weekends were great as the flat entrance had a long lane.
Dressed up in an orange lace body with matching stockings answered the door got the money out of her hand bag he handed over the food with a nice smile. He definitely appreciated it but no nakedness on show lol
How is flashing someone who’s just trying to do their job respectful? For a start, you’ve no idea how old the person is, I’ve had kids deliver food to me before and their parents waited in the car.
Bringing non consenting people into your sexcapades is not respectful, no matter what way you try to spin it.
These are just people going about their work, they haven’t consented to get involved in someone’s ‘dare’ or to be filmed either.
There is no respect involved with any of it.
I was in the fire service, and fitting smoke alarms was also part of the job.
The amount of times we’d go to a house, where a scantily clad, or dressing gown open, sex toys left on the bed.
Knock on the door and they’ve answered in see thru lingerie, knowing your coming
Not once did any of the crew complain, and made some interesting conversation on the way back to the station
Your opinion is valid, and you make some good points, but not everyone thinks like that, and find it titilating to see a woman messing around, after all it’s non threatening
Yes u may make the point that you wudn know that person is agreeable, but I’m 57 now and I Wud probably count on one hand the amount of guys I’ve met that wudn love this to happen to them!
Agreed it’s could be a kick but it’s not consensual
I’ve answered the door to our postie in no more than a bathrobe and sporting an obvious stiffy but only as he’d been banging the front door for 5 minutes while we were busy in bed lol
I’ve also had a fantasy about answering the door in my robe and lingerie underneath so obviously showing my stockinged legs but never likely to go through with it as don’t have food delivered lol
Definitely agree with everyone this should never be done, keep it as a fantasy or pay someone a professional, or role play, but come on no one should be doing this kind of thing without consent.
On the same topic, women exposing themselves to different degrees has been around for time itself, it’s been on telly years ago with Benny hill
It’s on this forum with posts about voyeuism and exhibitionism
Theres a big following on the net for this kind of material, that’s why people do it, and the pizza guys usually get a generous tip, and never look like they didn’t enjoy it
Obviously filming it isn’t always the case, and I’m sure it goes on without the need to
But the shades of exhibitionist behaviour include a diverse range, we’ve seen the topic discussed on LH very regularly, this is just another shade in the spectrum
So if you are dead against this happening, then your really slating all forms of exhibitionism aren’t you?
Firstly, flashing is flashing and without consent is just as inappropriate regardless of gender.
Secondly, that’s the key, consent. Putting somebody in a sexual situation without their consent is not okay.
And thirdly, it’s an incredible leap to say that it’s slating all forms of exhibitionism, I don’t think things like nudist beaches or bath houses are the same boat as stripping infront of a random stranger who’s just doing their job.
Naturist beaches are exactly that, and most naturist folk don’t do it to be exhibitionists, so you can’t count that.
Using the word Flashing conjours up an aging gentleman in a dirty old raincoat, opening it to reveal genitals to an unsuspecting woman - and obviously this is wrong on so many levels.
Theres threat, intent, fear of rape perhaps and this is underpinned by women’s perception about naked strangers
“Many” men love porn, go out there way to see a bit of leg, breast and ass, and have zero fear about being raped, it’s even some men’s fantasies
So the argument falls to pieces if you are juxtaposing the two scenarios
Yes filming it and putting it all over the net without post consent, can’t deny that’s not correct
But as a male knocking on a woman’s door (without being filmed) & seeing some hot woman’s body -
If you say that’s unwanted by many males, then you don’t know men very well
I normally go collect the pizza and she’s at home lol. Like the idea though but doubt she would be up for it.