I’m just here trying out new toys etc with my man. We’ve been together 5 years. I’ve always been opposed to toys & porn but wanting to try it out 
so basically newbies & wanting advice ,tips etc. On toys, positions, and oral.
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Hello and welcome,
If you take a browse of the threads in the search tool there are lots of great threads that can help you, though really, talking to your partner is the best bet - my husband has no interest in porn or sex toys for men at all. We demisexuals, always gotta be difficult 
I hope you find some great tips and tricks to please you both 
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Welcome to the forum
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Welcome to the forum..
My advice is to start slow. Maybe get the Advent Calendar https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/christmas/advent-calendars/
So you can try a variety of toys that maybe you would not normally try. You mayfind something you had not considered.
As to oral.. well have a look at https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/advice/ section..
but simple things try alternating hot and cold.. Take an ice cube in your mouth or a warm (Make sure its warm not a hot coffee) drink. Try something fizzy (wine , lemonade) the bubbles add an extra sensation.
Blindfolded him as then he has to focus on the sensations not the look.
Porn, there are quite a few films directed by women for women they are not as focused on the sex and “Money Shot”. so maybe a good way to get into that area.
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Hellooooooo
Welcome to the forum! 
Hello and welcome , remember you are doing it for yourself as well as him , anything you find uncomfortable you hold the right to STOP immediately
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Mrs W here……
Hello and welcome @Shannonslover …. hope you enjoy it here on the LH Forum … and I am sure you will get loads of helpful advice love xx
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G’Day
G’day, what news from down under
Hello and welcome. Hope you enjoy the adventure and excitement of incorporating toys.
I’ve been a horrible wife, we’ve been married for over 20 years and I never gave oral except a handful of Times. I didn’t know how to do it so the past week I’ve been watching real people online to learn. There’s a lot of tutorial videos out there too. I never knew so much lol. I told my hubby i want to do it multiple times a week if not everyday so I can figure it out.
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While you are doing it you should ask him what he likes. My hubby likes me to stroke his balls gently and vary the movements of my mouth on him, going deep sometimes and them just sucking the tip and run my tongue around his foreskin. Doing it one way may not suit every man so ask him if he likes what you are doing and if he wants you to do it any different, faster slower etc.
Oh we talked about that too and he told me when to keep doing certain things
Yes thats exactly the right thing and the best way to learn what he likes. 
39 years married and we are still learning new things.
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Love that! I turn 45 in December and I told him I don’t want to die someday not experiencing all these sexual pleasures. I watched the movie Babygirl and it was like an aha moment when she told her husband what she wanted to be fulfilled.
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Bit like me but would not go as far as swinging or sharing with other people. There are plenty of other things to experience within our existing relationship.
Oh we are both really introverted people so it’s probably never going o happen, but be said be will watch some porn and act it out with me
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Oh now that sounds good. Have fun 
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Swinging is not going to happen for us, but watching some good quality porn and acting it out sounds good