Thanks for your response Greebo, I'm sorry for my delayed reply..
It's been close to two years since my last anal escapade! During my last times of experimentation I could only describe myself as being so high on sexual endorphines that in the name of getting off I 'ended' up trying things that went against my common sense.. Things like potentially unhealthy (household item) lubes and/or heat generating liquids/lubes.. Also as you may have gathered by reading my other post in "anul horror stories" I experimented with produce, and I might not have cleaned something from the store well enough...
The 'bottom' line is that I basically went hog wild trying different things out (or should I say "in"?), and there could be any number of things I did that caused my current pain and physical problems..
To answer your questions better about the plug incident;
I think the plug I was using was this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/orgasmarmy/anal-toys/doc-johnson-classic-butt-plug-large-/details.aspx It WAS a large plug, but not HUGE.. Mine was black.. It's been almost a couple years.. The pain is not severe, but like a sharp stabbing feeling that comes in pulses. Sometimes I don't feel it that much really, but other times the pain is coming and going a lot.. The pain feels internal, and feels like it's coming from the left side/inner wall of my a$s.. My continence IS affected.. Finding myself having to coax things out manually, but not every time.. I CAN grip my finger.. For a while I was getting really nauseous every time I had to urinate.. I was having gut pain and feelings of sickness until I would urinate, then the sick feeling would go away.. That doesn't happen so much anymore, but I do still get some bladder pain/discomfort occasionally, and the stabbing pains in my bum..
To close up this post I'll say just a couple last things..
I'm NOT debilitated by these problems, not yet anyways.. I am VERY concerned however and am trying to resolve the issues.. I'm a fairly active person in average shape, not too overweight or anything.. I'm hoping I can beat whatever these problems are that I'm still figuring out.. As said before, it could be any number of things.. I'd probably be a great submissive because it was with a mentality of self abuse, degradation, and humiliation that I attacked my a$s with slutty toys of many varieties!
And lastly.. I considered whether or not I should even post again based on the fact that this IS NOT a medical board, but really only supposed to be "reviews of products"... I feel on one hand that my discussion is out of place. And yet at the same time I feel the discussion is very much in it's right place because mine is a true review of what things can go wrong with toys and other experimentation if not done right. This is valuable reading for anyone who is considering getting into anal stimulus for their first time..
I don't expect anyone to be able to tell me what I need to do medically for my situation, not from this discussion board anyways.. But I am open to the possibility that some of you might know something, or have some of your own personal experience that you could offer to me as ideas or suggestions! If you can, that would be great!