My wife is a larger plus size woman. I’m an average size guy. I’m looking for ideas and suggestions for positions or tips that work in that situation. Even though missionary seems to be our go to most times, she sometimes complains about her hips hurting. I would love for her to get on top and ride but she says she’s not comfortable in that position. I suspect it has something to do with body image. I’m just looking for tips and suggestions because I would like to spice things up.
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Hi, my wife is also a plus size women and we too mostly do missionary but we also lift her legs up in the air and i will sit up mlre so while doing it. She enjoys doggy the most. Most recently we have found that if she lays on her side, and lifts 1 leg, and i straddle the leg on the bed, we can do it that way and its different. Maybe try that
Welcome to the forum sir. Not sure if it’s a thing but I feel like I’ve seen something somewhere about a book or list of sex positions for plus size couples to try… can’t remember if it was a lovehoney thing they was doing with their position of the week newsletters…
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Sidewinder her is great, slso gives access to play too …
Prone bone is the best. I find the easiest way is to start in doggy style and then have her lie down once I’m already inside her. It’s a favorite for both of us.
My wife used to be over weight. 275. Had gastric bypass and has been 140 for the past 15 years. But when she was larger, we had the same issues. A lot of the time she wouldn’t feel comfortable doing certain positions, be it for physical or image issues. Communication is key. I helped her understand that at the end of the day, I was there to support her at any size. However, for us it was usually missionary or doggy during that time frame. They tend to be the two positions that are the easiest for heavier women and as far as image issues it also easier for them to ignore it in those positions.
I wish you guys the best because being able to have that freedom, even if it’s only one more position is a huge confidence boost and everyone should be able to feel happy in their love life.
Is she doing any form of exercise? I get tight flexors (also a plus sized woman) but a few stretches and exercises can really help avoid pain and cramp. Also massage if needs be; not the most sexiest thing but has definitely escalated before 
I love cowgirl, my husband just doesn’t let me do it very often because a) the power goes to my head and b) he’s into orgasm prolongation and what’s good for the goose is good for the gander 
My wife is plus size a size 22-24 and we do it all. Doggy is our fav and gives me a great view of her plus size body from behind. Spoons is good aswell. She goes on top sometimes which I love her riding me but she finds she can’t stay like that for long. Sex on the table is good bending over from behind or she lays on her back on the table and I stand up using chairs to hold her legs.