I'm really new here! I've been married to my husband for a year, and we've been together for 8. The past couple of months we've just reached this amazing point in our relationship and have started trying different things, hence why I'm on here, I've been making some new purchases to spice things up!
Something that has come up is watching porn together. We both want to, but both feel a bit strange about it because we're quite shy people. I've looked on the Internet for things to watch, and searched for DVD's but haven't been able to find something that's just right. Just something that's not just been filmed purely for men to watch, but something that's not too soft either.
I've tried to look up some DVD's with female directors and haven't had any luck. Does anyone happen to have a website they use for DVD's? I was hoping LH stocked something like this, was quite surprised they don't.
And her website where you can see non explicit previews
http://www.erikalust.com/films/
Just google porn for woman and read a few articles cosmopolitan,woman's own, guardian and get the names of the female producers you like the sound off and then search for the producer and there films. I would also add that if you intend to buy and DVD/Blue Ray its region comparable and also try and buy from a uk site.
The Erika Lust stuff definitely has a couple friendly approach, in that there is more of a buildup to the sex before getting straight into it.
X-Art and Nubile Films are great in that they are beautifully shot and often have quite passionate sex, however they're falling into the trap of using stick-thin women for their videos, which is getting a tad boring. If there was a bit more variety in their stars, then it would be much better.
S&S thanks for your help. We tried x-art but it seemed a bit dull, maybe we're not as shy as we thought!! Haha! I'll definitely check out Erica Lust, thanks!
Thanks very much Nicole! I thought it was strange that LH didn't stock anything like that, I thought if they could they would! I actually looked on the play.com website because that's where I usually get normal DVD's and they had a large selection of material on there but none of them seemed suitable for what we were looking for. I was sure that play was an English site but upon researching they're located in Jersey, so that's probably a loophole they have.
We tried online stuff but I don't think it's really our thing, but I really appreciate all the responses I've had on here. It's such a wonderful community I'm so happy I've joined!
After deliberating my purchases over the past week I've finally decided and I'm currently ordering my first batch of LH products to be delivered tomorrow!
You can buy lots of DVD’s from ‘Pulse and Cocktail’, they have stores over the UK and have a big collection. We got a few harder DVD’s from there including the Young Harlots series and other ‘Harmony’ Titles. we find Harmony stuff to be very good, well made, sexy and not cheap looking. They sell the Jenna Jameson DVDs at Pulse and Cocktail as well. All the DVDS there are expensive however.
I found browsing for this specific type of porn for couples quite a chore, so I ended up creating a site to link and share it. Hope you find it useful!
I am also a very very very shy person! But, after the first couple of times me and my OH can openly watch porn together...just take it in turns to pick!
The answer is what do you both enjoy watching (or think you will)? Only when you've got an idea of what you might enjoy, both in terms of content and of style will you really be able to find the right things.
If you don't know where to start how about looking at these (all have trailers to give you an idea of what's on offer)
Erika Lust
Joybear.com
frolicme.com
Petrajoy.com
Have fun and hope you find what you're looking for