Porn for Couples

Hey as a man i am not new to the world of pornography, and when watching it i find it easy to gloss over the harcore titles, extreme scenes and variable acts in each clip. Now im not saying that me and my OH are averse to experiementation and hardcore sex, but we dont like it 24/7

Every now and again we wish someone would do the foreplay for us, i.e we want to watch something that turns us on (we are generally in a loving mood at these times.) and would like some friendly, romantic, porn to watch!

does anyone know any reliable websites or sections of websites suitable? preferably free.

Recently we have taken to making our own videos and watching them back, which is good but lacks the required camera crew :P and we and up giving a critique on oursleves.

Thank you in advance.

If you go onto redtube.com and type "x art" into the search bar lots of videos come up. They're all very sensual and romantic, well shot and flattering with gorgeous girls and guys.

Very good porn for couples I think :) xx

Totally agree with dotdashdot - X Art is probally the best porn made

this is interesting, I had never watched porn before and had read in a lot of places it was a fun thing to do as a couple but i always saw it as cheating.... one night i was feeling rather naughty so suggested it and well it made me so hot.. and didnt feel like cheating at all really! and it was mostly me watching it than him!!! Although it isnt something i would do regularly, maybe on the odd occassion it would be fun and this x-art sounds the way to go :D

@ OP....

we watch porn together, but it tends to be 'on' whilst we're playing - as opposed to sitting and watching avidly. Funnily enough i know that JJ is more likely to grab a dvd and watch that alone than me - where i may have a quick gander at clips on the internet.

teh biggest problem with porn for anyone let alone couples is finding the quality/genre which is consistent all the way through ( talking about movies).....without sounding awful i bought a truckload on a rather good deal when the exchange rate was high against the dollar. of that i junked about 50% before thinking about watching it with JJ.......and subsequently junked about another 25%.......

nowadays for our joint entertainment i find the best way is to sift through clips on the main free sites, for us generally by genre and then duration.......and then i'll have a quick watch - flicking through ( fast forwarding) to make sure there is no turn offs.......then simply a metter of saving the link and revisiting when the time is right for both of us.

Thank you very much, i have don a bit of looking and x-art and joymii seem to be the gooduns, they both have clips on all the popular websites, however i have another issue.

browsing on pornhub.com and redtube.com i saw adverts advertising the following;

-sex with married, unfaithfull women "ready to cheat now"

-"brutal sex with barely 18s"

-"over fifties looking for a fucking" "with a rather unpleasent picture!

these can be quite offputting for my OH, i have learned to filter them out, and so i have to either choose the video beforehand or turn away the screen while i select the video, (which removes the 'teamwork' aspect. would love a way of removing the ads or a website that give direct links to couple friendly porn on the popular websites.

Yeah the ads are really annoying, especially the graphic pictures! I just put the videos on fullscreen so you can't see the ads down the sides but still poses a problem when you're searching! I'm sure some of the more "techy" members will know a way to help :) x

nope, dont think there's a way around the ads - possibly subscribing to certain sites removes that, but those ads are their lifeblood. as i say, prob best to search solo anyway to make sure that the content all the way thru is relevant....then just select one and watch fullscreen......

dotdashdot wrote:

Yeah the ads are really annoying, especially the graphic pictures! I just put the videos on fullscreen so you can't see the ads down the sides but still poses a problem when you're searching! I'm sure some of the more "techy" members will know a way to help :) x

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TT does that stop the ads that are on the main page - or just the secondary window that opens.......

Heatseekher wrote:

TT does that stop the ads that are on the main page - or just the secondary window that opens.......

Well I just installed it and did a test block on redtube (would you believe me if I said thats the first time I've been on that site? ) and I see no ads whatsoever. I'm using chrome, loaded the main page up and clicked the little stop icon at the top right of chrome (adblocks icon), clicked block ads on this page then 'looks good' on the first box, then slided the slider one from the end and then block and jobs a gooden

chrs TT

Hahaha well thats a coincidence i was just coming to write that i had worked it out and post this info;

i have been a long time user of adblock on chrome, and realised it wasnt blocking the ads. thats because adblock doesnt work in incognito mode unless you tick the right box. one adblock is installed if you right click the abp sign and then click "manage extensions" theres a box to tick "allow in incognito" thank you very much!

to download adblock go here http://adblockplus.org/

Thank you all very much and hope this helps a few others. including @dotdashdot

I know on xhamster they have "female-friendly" porn, which can be a little hit and miss sometimes in terms of what that actually means.

We like watching porn occasionally, but can't stand 'artificial' people, muscular guys with gigantic c*cks and thin girls with false tits, usually in posed situations and saying silly things in bored voices while the girls fake orgasms. They always end with facials which doesn't reflect real life, in our experience. We prefer real people and real sex.

Anna Span produces female oriented porn which R enjoys, her fave is "Toy With Me". We also like the"Swinger" series (Swinger 1 through to Swinger 5) set in La Chambre club with real swingers, and one-on-one, 4some and orgy scenes. In fact, watching one of those got us interested in swinging in the first place.

Years ago an American female director called Candida Royalle produced some good female porn, we still enjoy watching ours despite the 'big hair' and moustaches! Candida also considered pull-outs to be a turn-off for women and insisted the men came internally which we think is a lot sexier.

Making your own is good though, especially if you are playing with friends.

TTurtle wrote:

dotdashdot wrote:

Yeah the ads are really annoying, especially the graphic pictures! I just put the videos on fullscreen so you can't see the ads down the sides but still poses a problem when you're searching! I'm sure some of the more "techy" members will know a way to help :) x

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Ahhh I knew it wouldn't be long before TT came to the rescue!! I'm going to give it a go! xx

Me and the other half generally try and find something we both like. We generally don't go for any particular company etc, just anything over 20 minutes and isn't completly OTT. She has a favourite category and I have mine, so we generally pick something from one category and look for a video that features the other as well, win win!

swingcouple wrote:

We like watching porn occasionally, but can't stand 'artificial' people, muscular guys with gigantic c*cks and thin girls with false tits, usually in posed situations and saying silly things in bored voices while the girls fake orgasms. They always end with facials which doesn't reflect real life, in our experience. We prefer real people and real sex.

I completely agree about hating porn with "artificial" people and scenarios as above. That's not to say that my wife and I dislike all staged porn -- just that it needs to seem natural and believable to us.

I haven't yet found a specific type of couple-orientated porn (or maybe it's erotica) that I think would appeal particularly strongly to my wife and me. I'll attempt to describe it...

We'd like to see a genuine couple that we can relate to -- who aren't necessarily supermodel calibre but are confident about their bodies and very much in love with each other.

In terms of content, we would like to watch some scenes of the couple interacting in non-sexual ways so that we can get to know and like them outside the bedroom. When it comes to sex scenes, explicit and hardcore is fine with us, but we don't just want to see shots of genitals -- we want the camera to spend plenty of time on the couple's faces, with strong mutual eye contact, and some mutual point-of-view shots so that we can immerse ourselves in the couple's individual and shared experiences.

I'm particularly keen that the camera captures the subtler points -- those quieter moments and exquisite facial expressions that accompany real intimate pleasure between a loving couple, as opposed to the sledgehammer-like fakery of most porn scenes.

As well as "vanilla love-making", we'd like to see the couple get playful and try out some things that would push the boundaries a bit for my wife and me, with an emphasis on the fun aspect as seen through the eyes of this couple whom, by this time, we trust.

In short, my wife and I want to be able to imagine that we are that lovely couple, and for us whilst watching to say to each other things like: "That looks fun!" and "They're really enjoying that -- we could give that a try!".

Whew... that's a long shopping list! I wonder whether there's anything like that out there.

I like X-hamster as well, free and safe and all tastes catered for. And if you started filming, open up an account (free as well) and start posting videos and photos. No need to show your faces and completley anonymous. Its a massive turn on to know people are getting turned on by watching you, and commenting on your videos or pics.

And in my opinion amature porn is always best when there is only two in the room, so you just have to have a steady hand and take it slowly :)

little thought on where to find 'material'....i've been wamnting to get a particular dvd for a while- the Fashionistas and returned to a place that i have used before (ages ago)....one of those' ooops forgot they exist'....cduniverse in teh states. they have tons and i mean tons of dvd's......but you can also purchase minutes and chop/change what you view or as i did you can download the vid to your pc or just remt - so various options. to give an idea.....buying an 'e' copy of the movie weas £13.50, to rent it for 48 hrs was £q1.30 and not sure how many cents per minute it would have been on pay per minute......

to wade through and to try and find a genre/star/film that appeals as ever would be tricky, but if you are lacking knowledge of actresses/actors then there's a handy site call 'freeones'....could easily ask for recommends on there....although there are some reviews on that cduniverse site.....