As yet I have not considered wife sharing, swingers or escorts, so I don’t think porn is necessarily a direct route to those things for everybody. 
(and nor are they considered univerally unacceptable either)
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It’s always been an open secret in my relationship that I use for solo play when my OB wasn’t in the mood.
What I didn’t realise until lockdown was my OH did too, as it was well hidden, but something felt off so much I thought someone else was involved. I’m glad it was that to be honest. Being the higher libido partner I found this and the secrecy very difficult as I felt she’d rather use it than be with me. Selfish and hypocritical I know.
We’re all good now and regularly watch together, and I encourage her to watch on her own. Even have a shared account on a premium site. Cams we don’t watch or partake, though I would like to.
I guess the main thing would be it needs to be something you are both comfortable with and as with most thing regarding sex and relationships open, honest communication is vital.
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I don’t like to describe myself as a cam girl (mainly because I’m no longer a girl but a mature woman) but as someone who does cam on a reasonably regular basis I can totally understand how people wouldn’t be happy about their partners viewing it. When you’re viewing a cammer it’s much more personal than just porn because of the interactive element.
I don’t personally think porn leads to swinging, escorts or affairs but it can break a relationship if its not something both parties can agree is acceptable.
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We regularly watch porn. Sometimes we’ll watch it together, but I prefer separately as we both have our own tastes. While I don’t consider watching porn cheating because it’s generally available to everyone, cam stuff is more personal which makes me uncomfortable. I’ve never used or been interested in it. I think my partner has watched the free group/room sessions but not got involved in them.
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Mrs300 isn’t into porn but has no problem with me watching a sexy film while I masturbate - sometimes she helps me out!
There is no way for us that porn / erotica is going to lead to swinging etc… no disrespect to anyone that enjoys that: it’s just not for us.
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If you were using cam sites what sites do people tend to use?
Porn isn’t anything to be worried about, no matter how much sex you’re having sometimes you just need that bit of solo play but cam shows and things like that are a whole nother story IMO, obviously it’s not quite cheating but I would not be okay with that. The most important thing is letting him know how you feel about this stuff