Position recommendation anal fingering during intercourse

Hi all, after some position recommendations for a specific task, namely for my wife (who’s fairly petite) to reach round and finger my bum whilst I’m inside her.

We try in missionary, but though she gets tantalisingly close she can’t quite reach due to her arms not being long enough. Could reverse cowgirl be an option? Also wondered about x factor position with me on top but lying across forming cross shape, not sure how comfortable that one would be though.

Any suggestions much appreciated!

Reverse Cowgirl would certainly be the easiest for her if she is a bit petite.

Not sure about the X Factor position.

Have you thought about wearing a butt plug during intercourse?

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Thanks, also considering a butt plug further down the line, but she’s v keen on trying her finger inside first. Presume with reverse cowgirl that pillow under my bum would help.

Also seen x factor position referred to as cross booty position, and that one appeals for being able to see each other more whilst giving her easier access to my bum. Not sure how comfortable it would be for us both.