Hi looking for some tips for positions that are good for clitoral stimulation such as cowgirl but that will enable my husband to move a bit more, we use a cockring and I find this great when I am on top but my husband recently can’t always stay hard while I’m doing this as he can’t move around very much and I’m grinding rather than moving in and out of that makes sense! It’s worked well for us for ages but I adjusted my HRT (testosterone)dosage and my libido went through the roof. As a consequence of this we had sex every day for over a week and he was exhausted, he has a stressful job and works long hours and this is when the problems started. I think it’s become a bit of an issue now (it has for me as I’ve tried to come by other methods such as him manually stimulating me rather than put pressure on him) but nothing is quite as good as coming while he’s inside me. It’s putting me off as well as I’m worrying about him and if he’s ok when I’m on top. We are obviously not that young as I’m post menopause so nothing too acrobatic or strenuous lol!
I’m wondering if the “tip-to-toe” position might work for you if yohr husband sort of wore the cock ring upside down? My only concern is it might tickle his balls too much and end the party before it started! 
Why not doggy with you holding a wand on your clit
Don’t have time to look up in the position library, but our default is a modified sort of missionary/coital alignment technique (CAT). I (man) an on top but once I’m inside I move my legs outside of my wife’s legs and she closes her legs. I end up then more grinding than thrusting and can adjust the angle based on whether I’m laying flat, propped up on my arms, or even more upright supporting myself on the headboard or wall. It does allow grinding on her clit, but also plenty of room for wifey to manually stimulate (like, 90% of the time) or get a toy between us (We-Vibe Melt is her go-to, but bullet vibes like the Tango or whatever you prefer and can fit works). I especially love when a toy is involved because I get some tangential vibes from it and especially with the Melt or Womanizer I can feel her whole vagina pulsing and squeezing around me as she gets close to orgasm.
Have him stand up next to the bed while you are positioned at the edge of the bed. Some pillows might be needed to get the parts all lined up but you should have lots of access to your clit. How about on your sides you have access from the front and he takes your from behind. last would be what I would call scissors. you are on your back and he enters you kinda from the side. Lots of access.
Might try this one I did suggest it but think it’s hard on the old knees lol as we don’t have carpet but easily fixed with a cushion
@MiddleAgedDirtbag I assume you’re talking about a vibrating cock ring?
Grinding is essential with those for my wife.
Using the missionary position with those works better for us.
Would you be happy using a small (or large!!!) vibrator on your clit yourself?
If you’re happy to work your own orgasm while gour husband works on his pounding you, it opens up all manner of positions so long as either of you can reach your clit to apply the desired vibe/clit sucker.
We use the We-vibe Tango x. Beautiful little bullet vibe with a great range of rumbly speeds, from mild to pretty intense. The touch x is great too from we-vibe. A touch bigger, by still small enough to fit in between you in most positions.
I would add, my wife doesnt like to hold the vibe herself, so it’s my job. I love to have her lying on her side, upper leg raised up the bed(right angle tonher body ish), i straddle her straight lower leg, and can get both amazing depth in her pussy, great range of movement too, and i can hold a vibe to her clit when time comes to make her cum!!! 
Can also play with her anus too depending on mood!
If you use reverse cowgirl, he can have better control and work with you by using his hands to move you up and down. This would help to avoid the grinding if he is less hard and more flaccid. Also, you could use a bullet vibrator to stimulate your clit.
Missionary with grinding, woman on top, spooning, and doggy with hands for extra stimulation, all great for clitoral pleasure.
We have tried reverse cowgirl before but my husband isn’t keen on it as he finds it uncomfortable
Thank you for those recommendations, both have good reviews on LH. Yeah it’s a Tenga vibrating cock ring it’s the best one we have tried, I use it on my own too. The problem using it in missionary is it never quite stays in the right spot long enough when my husband is wearing i unless he grinds rather than thrusts. I don’t mind holding a vibrator myself and the We Vibe touch X looks ideal for this much more ergonomic. Im not sure I could manage to hold my leg up at a right angle anymore I’m heading more towards “old age dirt bag “ lol these days 
Yeah, with vibrating cock rings, for the clitoris owner only the grinding works.
As a penis owner, i love it. especially in missionary, where it promotes a very cuddly, intimate and gentle loving making, with lots of kissing. I bury myself balls deep in her pussy, can feel her getting soaking wet and very excited until she comes… then we usually take it off for my own thrusting finish. My 2 best cock rings are the tenga one and the we-vibe pivot.
But you can’t thrust or the intermittent contact with the clitoris doesn’t work for my wife.
Re: leg at right angle, it’s not up in the air. She lays on her side, straight, and whichever side is up, that leg is at a right angle to her straight body, still resting on the mattress.
Her leg isn’t straight all the way either, just bend to have the up leg calf parallel to the low leg’s thigh if that makes sense.
Think of a lower case “h” if that makes sense.
Thanks for that, lol I I’m rubbish with written instructions. Someone bought me a non illustrated Karma Sutra many years ago, totally lost without pictures
Yeah the Tenga was the best £50 I ever spent, got it with a birthday discount