Positions for larger people

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Both me and my partner are larger people I am male 5’11"with a 42"waist average size penis my partner is female size 24 and about 5’5" so needless to say neither of us are very in shape or very flexible.

Increasingly we struggle to make things work PIV unless she’s on top (which by the way is my fave - love it when she’s on top and her boobs swinging in my face)

We’ve tried Doggystyle before which doesn’t seem to work for us either!

Any tips on what we could try? (Other than the obvious of lose weight)

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Her on the edge of the bed and you standing to enter her.

Leaning over a table / sofa

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Both of you standing, she bends over and puts one foot on the bed, chair, sofa. There is a sex position guide on this site also. Just make sure you’re having fun.

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Her sitting on the kitchen counter or dinning room table, should allow you easy access, with the increased sexual excitement of doing it in a different location.

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Have you tried interlocking your legs like scissors you can get as deep as you can

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Have you thought about trying some them wedge position things? Might be something to explore

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@AJSTAR Excellent suggestion. I don’t have one but I have heard that can help a lot, much more comfortable.

Nothing worse then getting yourself into a twister position and worrying about falling or getting a cramp rather than the task in hand :slightly_smiling_face:

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@5h4993R
Being big can be difficult but I would say increase your oral sex and both because masters of oral

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Thank you all so much for your advice

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Most definitely!! Well worth the exploration in to

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We have one of these - mainly because I have fibromyalgia and often find it difficult to support myself. But I can see how it would help you both to get into and maintain different positions that you might find tricky because of your sizes… It’s especially good for both PIV and PIA if I’m on my front - easier access for him and stops my boobs from getting so squished….
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/sex-swings-machines/sex-furniture-position-enhancers/p/dominix-deluxe-sex-position-wedge/a40934g74578.html

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Can we try and avoid advice like this. It is not helpful and does not answer the original posters question. Being overweight has many causes, some of which are not related to exercise or eating. Conditions such as Polycystic Overian Syndrome (PCOS) make it difficult, or impossible to reduce weight.

Rant over.

Thanks everyone, some good advice in here which I will take away for me and my lovely ‘plus size’ lady x

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@anon48772521 As a PCOS sufferer I 100% agree. I have had years to come to terms with the fact my body will not be told what to do and it will do what it wants, went it wants :roll_eyes:

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@anon48772521
I have edited my comment- however I did give advice and apologies if anyone takes offence :disappointed:

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Thank you for taking the time to read my comment and to reflect.

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@Lovingsex This support looks amazing. I read some reviews about getting deeper. How did you find it? I would really like to know if being on your tummy or back was best!