I’m normally up for a few rounds OH is done after one round. It is a little frustrating from time to time but I try not to let it bother me and just enjoy the snuggles.
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I make sure she has cum as many times as she wants before we both cum for the last time… Im like a lot of you guys. The minute that last spasm and drop is out i lose every bit of sexy feeling. Its like a light goes out. All i wanna do is some random task around the house that ive put off. If you can imagine having no sex drive at all, thats exactly what its like. Funny coz in younger life the bloody thing wouldnt stay down at all. Maybe i wore him out…
Like you I’m finished after one orgasm but fortunately (for her) I’m not allowed to come without her permission so she’s usually orgasmed out well before she may or may not allow me to come.
I try and avoid cumming for as long as possible and concentrate on her pleasure.
We use lots of toys, slow, slow sex, grinding and little stops.
Ideally she cums twice before I do and she’s pretty ready for me to get there and then chill!
If she is still hot to trot, I’m happy to oblige with fingers and toys.
My wife takes charge of her own pleasure, which is the sexiest thing in the world, and also takes away any pressure.
There’s lots of ways to worship the pussy 
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Sounds selfish but one best ties fucking was all day mad to get at the wife, we were both horny as fuck. Finally got to it. I stayed inside her after cuming. We cuddled n kissed, I got hard again while still inside n did again, did this 4 times. By the end no cum was coming out of me, jus kept getting orgasms. Was the definition of making love with the person I love. Nothing dirty, just closeness
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I think pressure for a second round can kill a hard on. Sometimes I can recover within 15 minutes, sometimes it doesn’t happen but it’s no big deal for either of us. If she’s still in the mood then toys, fingers or mouth are all options. As for delay creams etc I tried these in my younger days when lasting longer was a big issue but never had much success. These days I can last longer but also find that she can orgasm quicker and more frequently. More often than not it’s her first O that takes the longest but after she’s warmed up she can cum very quickly from oral toys or PIV. Also I think @Calie gave some great advice in not thinking about PIV as the end to sex or that you both have to cum from it. If your getting close go back to other stuff you both enjoy
I’ve recently been experimenting with cock rings.
I’ve been using a stainless steel cock ring i like very much (around cock and balls)… and have recently added a tight silicon ring on my penis.
Beside the usually cock ring results, a bit bigger, on the 4 occasions I’ve used that combo, ive found myself able to keep going past my orgasm!!!
This confused me quite a bit at 1st, I’m mid 40s, having sex twice in a day is exceptional, and staying hard beyond orgasm hasnt happened to me in well over 20y 
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Last night i even allowed myself to cum before my wife… knowing that i could still keep going until she’d cum too…!!! New ground for me, and i very much enjoyed it. My wife also comes more easily once she knows she’s accomplished her mission and got me to flood her pussy…
I like those new possibilities on the horizon.
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