Anyone elses OH do this? My OH has always pre-stretched her arse with butt plugs for anal sex, whilst this has definitely made anal sex easier and more enjoyable vaginal sex has/had always been a problem for us.
Now I’m not the most blessed of men, probably average or just a bit bigger but my OH has always had a small tight vagina, she puts this down to even though she had 2 kids naturally our sexlife was more vanilla than a tub of ice cream for the first 15 years of our marriage then it being totally neglected when she discovered her dirty side and 80% of our sexlife was then anal sex.
“We’ve” decided that anal has to take a rest and her pussy deserves more attention, but the old problem of her tightness was still a problem and I could only last a few minutes, taking her anal experience as inspiration she bought some large toys and now inserts them before sex to open herself up, it has definitely help and vaginal sex sessions are a lot better, she’s does worry I can’t feel her but not having my cock constricted is whats making it so much better!!
I used to pre-stretch my ass before being pegged with our biggest dildo but don’t need to anymore.
My wife still uses a butt plug before taking me anally but that’s because it’s not a frequent part of what we do.
Loved this saying! 
I do agree and think in many cases pre warming up can make sex much nicer all round.
I use a butt plug to loosen up most times and the same for my OH when I peg him. However there are occasions when we go straight at it and only lube is needed but we both like a bit of butt plug foreplay.
I always prepare my ass for a plug session
When I got my first butt plug after getting home I went on cam and started chatting with a regular guy who is very good at encouraging me when we wank together
He’s got family but now in a gay relationship
We went on cam and he talked me through it
First lube my ass tease just inside the opening
Then start fingering with lots of lube
Repeat the process wiggling and stretching the finger side to side
Then repeat with two fingers
We did this all with him watching me bent over doggy style
Then you should be ready for the plug
Be patient with yourself
If it doesn’t feel comfortable repeat the two fingers stretching
I’ve only had 1 inch plugs but stick to this warming up process
Probably need it more or less depending on how often you play with your asshole n what type and size of toys
This is Al’s OH. We use the beads, his finger or the dildo to help relax my butt hole before he goes in. The dildo is smaller than his penis so he opens me up a little more and that feels sooo good! I really think it’s more mental than physical. My brain has to relax those muscles for him to get in easier.
Have a look at one of the inflatable dildo that LH stock and use to gradually stretch. Alternatively nothing beats a few fingers down there or even a fist if and when ready to accommodate.
I stretch out my vagina with an inflatable dildo sometimes ( feels amazing!). OH pumps it up gradually. After I’ve cum, we fuck and I still manage to grip his cock and make him cum. Used fingers if the past, but if there’s the slightest catch on his nails it can hurt like hell. Dildo is a safe.
My last post, in August, was about how I didn’t need to pre-stretch any more but I’m getting pegged with our big dildo later today and it’s been a few weeks since we’ve used that so I thought it might be prudent to open myself up a little using my big plug during this morning’s session.
So it’s the evening now and she’s pegged me as she promised. It’s a good job I did use the plug as that dildo is a monster.
I often pre-stretch before to loosen up before getting my ass fisted or before getting pegged with the king cock mega Chubby. Besides I also just feels good having an big buttplug up my ass.
But it also feels lovely when I get stretchen finger by finger till my wife fist slides wrist deep in my ass.
We generally put a plug in during foreplay. Then 69 followed by PIV then finishing with PIA.
Having said that tho i went straight into her butt on sunday, went in so easy with no stretch prep, must have been super relaxed.
Al’s OH writing. The only things that go in my vagina before his penis are his fingers or once in a while, a dildo that’s smaller than his penis. I want his hard penis to do the stretching.