Premature Ejaculation

Sex Tips & Talk
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I am starting to get very anxious about my PE worsening more than it ever was. I know as the wonderful @JGood said, a visit to the GP would probably be a an idea but that’s something I can’t face at the minute really.

Can’t remember if I’ve ever talked about the situation here very much, but have never lasted long, only ever a few seconds, and on a very good day up to half a minute, which always felt wonderful and really satisfying. Note - counteracted this by trying to please my o/h first and with toys & trying to stop start etc.

After healing from my recent operation, things were looking up as a few times I lasted about two minutes which the longest ever in my life & out of this world ! Orgasms were quite poor though, perhaps due to now needing copious amounts of lube. However a few months have gone by and it’s back to half a minute at best again.

Being mid-50s now, ED is beginning to be an occasional issue too, but that’s for another day.

I know….. overweight, unfit, first course of action is to look in the mirror and do something about it, been saying it for years !

PS : People may wonder why I post and read so much here, but the kinky side and experimentation is probably more fun than actual sex for us. We’ve had so much enjoyment from LH with so many things we’ve bought and enhanced our play with.

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@Simon_101 my wonderful friend if you can’t face the GP just now that’s understandable. But you have already mentioned the main things he will look at first those being fitness and lifestyle. So you can change those without external help, diabetes may also be an issue indicators or needing to pee a lot or drink a lot more than you normally do.

Now here’s hopefully a little fun for you and reading or watching YouTube, find and practice tantric breathing and massage it will hopefully help you in learning to control those impulses.

One example is deep breathing while you and your other half hold each other. In a close embrace. Getting an erection is fine but the goal isn’t to stimulate but to just centre you both. But you may already be a master at the skills so please teach me if you are.

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Does a cock sleeve help “keep it up”?

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I know this might seem a bit left field, but have you tried thinking of something unpleasant when the feeling starts? When I was younger and more trigger happy, I used to conjure up a mental image of work and withdraw for a minute.