I am a married 34 male. I have had premature ejaculation all of my adult life and it has got worse over the last couple of years.
It is now so extreme that I can hardly even masturbate. I basically ejaculate as soon as I touch myself. It is like my penis is just too sensitive.
I have tried delay spray, which works but is numbing. I have tried Priligy, which didnt work, I have tried patches, which didn’t work.
What can I do?
@Cw91
Have you already seen a doctor?
Maybe a specialist doctor could offer more answers.
Good luck with it all.
Seek advice at the drs
Prelvic exercises
Tantric practice helps.
Premature ejaculation is a huge area, with both physical and mental avenues to explore. Give this being something that has impacted you for a long time, have you considered speaking to a medical professional about it?
As a short term solution, have you considered something like a cock sleeve? It may give you a new thing to explore with a partner whilst also giving yourself some space and time to enjoy the entire act of sex?
Like others have said, best go see a doctor. Are you circumcised?
Hubby used to suffer with this when we were first married so we decided to use condoms, which helped a lot, now being a lot older we dont need to use them and hubby lasts a lot longer now.
what would happen at a doctors appointment?
Emla cream - you’ll be going all night
I’ve always suffered PE and the wank before sex used to work in my younger days and the delay spray worked and actually trained me for quite sometime as could last without it for a few years but now suffering again. I now suffer ED as well and find viagra works well for both conditions. I still come quick but can then can stay hard for round 2 and can then last without worrying about losing it
Does the viagra make you last longer? I have suffered my entire life, I didn’t even know what it was called until the first girl I slept with screamed it at me in an argument, that has fucking haunted me ever since!!
No, it won’t make you last longer as in delay orgasm but it will keep you harder for longer. If I’ve taken viagra I will still cum quickly but then I stay hard and can carry on and then last so she gets her enjoyment
Try a cock sleeve, last much longer and wife loves it, Much bigger!! worked for me
Does it not feel a bit daft with something like that on ? I think I’d feel really self conscious.
I suppose if it works then that’s good. I just don’t think it would stay on me for very long especially if I was worrying about it.
I’ve always thought that @Simon_101 although I haven’t tried one so cannot knock them.
But I’ve always thought of Mr. Potato head when I look at images of them…like having spare clip on cocks to hand so think I would be pissing myself laughing just thinking about a Mr. Potato head…the image would be there and don’t think I could shift it. Couldn’t have sex with Mr. Potato head…so so wrong
From a Toy Story lover
Now I am imagining sticking a pair of Mr Potato eyes on the bell end and how it would look! 
I’m thinking Toy Story Mr Potati Head “I better shave” and removing public hair now!
i was also very self conscious at the beginning, but i tried it on by myself and got a feel for how to use it. the pleasure and passion we both felt during sex and seeing wife squirm and moan with pleasure was well worth it. If you can get over all the self conscious issues and focus on how to bring the best experience to your partner then it is worth a try. you will also control your orgasm much easier. win win.
Can I ask how much Elma cream you use and where exactly do you apply it? How long before sex does it go on and do you wash it off before sex?
I’ve tried it before but ended up too numb that I couldn’t even get an erection
Would not have thought oral would be possible with the cream on unless it was done with a condom on. Hubby loves oral so much he would not want to miss out.
Thank you for the ‘mini review’ maybe it is something to look into as they are not particularly expensive. For another reason though, I couldn’t cope with one that loops round the scrotum, so that’s why it would probably just come off.