Hi all,
We have our first private swingers party coming up at the beginning of May.
Can you all share your knowledge if you have been to one.
what am I expected to bring (toys, protection, lube, outfits)
Because of hot tub so we take swim wear or no point
How should I dress normal, smart casual
Any other things I should know besides would really help
Thanks
As it’s a private party, you’ll have to ask the host. Every party will have different rules when it comes to dress etc.
Some parties do supply condoms and things but I’d always recommend taking your own just in case and/or so you know you like the brand/type.
Hope it all goes well and you have a fun time! 
If they have not provided do’s and don’ts… It seems sketchy to me. You should not be wearing swim wear in the hot tub. There should be a group getting it on, there should be couples getting it on, and there should be newbies figuring it all out.
We are the newbies hopefully getting it on with another couple or in a group or whatever 
Definitely ask the host, most parties do have rules theme ect, id be surprised if they don’t. Enjoy after all it’s a party.