So, I’m not the most frequent of posters, but some may remember me from posts regarding my frustration at our sex life being infrequent and repetitive. We’ve had some bends in the road where I’ve thought things had improved, then it slipped back. Then my wife wore some lingerie for the first time (which was incredible), then, again I fretted we’d regressed. But yesterday, for the first time in 30 years, my wife touched herself while I was PIV. I know this won’t seem much to most, but this is something I’ve yearned for for so long, and it was amazing.
I suppose I’m writing this purely as (I hope) a little encouragement for those in a similar boat. My vasectomy has definitely helped to foster a more spontaneous environment. So keep going, things can improve!
Yay for you both ! Back when I had my vasectomy , my cock went from the staff of life to the sport stick . We used it often and in new ( back then ) and wonderful ways . I suggest young people explore and have much sex , you never know when it may end . Enjoy !
This is brilliant news to hear! time and patience really does help along with reassurance and understanding. I really hope this continues to ignite that flame again.
Thanks all for your kind comments. I’m not sure we’re ever going to be as kinky as I’d like, but I have a sneaky suspicion it was more for me than for her, and I appreciated it greatly.