Prostate Massager

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Hi, I'm looking for help,

I've bought myself a prostate massager, Now this is quite new to me, How do I know I'm hitting the right spot or is it obvious??

If anybody would be good enough to give me a guide or some tips on use then that would be great.

Many Thanks

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Massagers are great but they're no substitute for a finger.

First, to find your prostate, lube up a finger and have a feel around. It's on the front wall (toward your belly button). With the other hand, masturbate. At the point of ejaculation you'll feel your prostate harden - ta-daa, one prostate located.

This will locate it for you, ready to use your toy. Don't be too rough, it can be a little uncomfortable but mixed with manual masturbation you should have loads of fun. Be patient. Takes a while!

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MS HKM,

Thanks for the instructions, you just helped me too...I will try this on my husband lol! What's the best prostate massager?

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There are lots of good ones on the market but I really don't think it substitutes for a finger!

Every guy is different and it depends if you're using the massager with a partner or alone. For instance, the prostate is about two inches into the anus. A guy alone might struggle so something like this is really handy;

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19801

However if it's a partner doing the playing then just about any massager is doable. Vibrating ones offer something your fingers can't, like this one;

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14762

But seriously, fingers are much better. Put a latex glove/condom on to lessen friction and lots of lube. Massage firmly - about the same pressure you'd use to scoop mash potato with your finger! Some like it harder but it can agitate the prostate so take it easy to begin with.

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Ms HKM,

URE SO AWESOME FOR SHARING!!!

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For me prostate massagers proved a waste of time and money (other than they were the first things that I used to experiment with and am very grateful that they led to other activities that were more fun).

I agree with others, far more fun having your OH massage you with a finger or toy.

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I think it varies tremendously between individuals. I have had good success with prostate massagers, although not the Aneros range that LH stock, which don't seem to be quite the right size for me.

The idea of a prostate massager is that by clenching your PC muscles, you alternately stimulate the prostate internally and the perineum externally. When you get the combination right it leads to fantastic orgasms. I found that the Aneros one I bought (the Progasm) didn't do much on the perineum.

My favourite is the Nexus Excel, which is from a range that LH don't stock sadly. Have a look: http://www.pleasure2me.co.uk/