I'm sure it'll happen for you soon!
Sadly, my replacement dildo, using Lovehoney’s offer to exchange if you’re not happy with a product, isn’t helping me. Compared to the previous one, the suction cup is great! And it has some nice vibrations. However, because it’s aimed more towards women, it isn’t curved to hit the p-spot. I have slightly better luck with it if I’m lying down or on my side, but sticking it to a vertical surface and riding it just makes it go up my poop chute and gives me that unpleasant feeling of needing to s***. Also, considering I’ve gone from a small one to a 6” dildo, the size is probably too big for me, especially after a while. I guess I need to upgrade the size gradually...? I was thinking of going for something like the Nexus Revo - one with a rotating head. :)
I'm more advanced than you are. I'm currently riding 11 inches with a 7.75 inch girth. Okay, it's probably too big for prostate milking........though I do love the feeling of being filled up.
I have a smaller 10 inch dildo, the Lifelike Lover Extra Girthy 10 inch, and that does tend to hit the prostate a bit better.
When I first bought the 11 inch dildo, I took it out of the packaging & immediately thought there's no way I'm ever going to take that.
Prior to that I was using the Jeff Stryker & I thought that filled me up......so yeah, definitely increase size gradually.
I always make sure I have a good douche before I play as well.
I've never tried a toy with a rotating head, so if you do buy one, I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!
Will do. :)
Like you I’ve tried different ways and many different toys to achieve a hands free prostate orgasm.
Long term married straight guy here looking for the holy grail.
If say ten times now using toys, breathing, watching porn, rocking getting better and better then I pee wee over myself which causes a mess and isn’t very erotic to me 
I go to toilet (empty bladder as much as possible) try some more then go back to my bead and butter Penis stimulation fun and orgasm.