I know I have posted something similar previously but it is something I am really struggling on and just wanted to ask peoples for tips. I have tried different positions, toys and small plugs and nothing amazing has happened. So I am just wondering what I am doing wrong?
Yes, it does exist. I have occassional lover who is able to get prostate orgasm. It did not come immediately for him, he had to learn it and practice and experiment.
You write "Achieving 'dry' orgasms and prostate milking is two totally different ways of stimulating the prostate to produce two totally different effects"... can you enlighten me as to the difference as I ALWAYS seem to ejaculate when we have p-play?
Dry orgasms - stimulate the prostate fast, very fast. You can use other stimulation but the focus is on the prostate. When close to orgasm you will clench. You should have a powerful orgasm that shakes your whole body. Also tugging at the testicles as you are about to ejaculate lessens the amount of ejaculation fluids.
Prostate milking is stimulating the prostate slowly and firmly until a clench happens. Wait for 30 seconds, stimulate again. Repeat. You will ejaculate without orgasm.
Both techniques take practice, patience and are easier with a partner as they can feel the clenches.
is 1 of the best O's v ever had. practise and experiment lots tho, took me some time. iv got a few toys off here. and a very cool strap on that my sexy wife helps wih. the rocks off range is good.
This: "Dry orgasms - stimulate the prostate fast, very fast. You can use other stimulation but the focus is on the prostate. When close to orgasm you will clench. You should have a powerful orgasm that shakes your whole body. Also tugging at the testicles as you are about to ejaculate lessens the amount of ejaculation fluids.
Prostate milking is stimulating the prostate slowly and firmly until a clench happens. Wait for 30 seconds, stimulate again. Repeat. You will ejaculate without orgasm".
The aneros toy is meant to be quite good or get your partner to make a come hither motion with a well lubed finger.