I’ve been using an anal dildo, prostate massager and vibrating prostate massager to reach a prostate orgasm for a couple years, but have not been able to. I bought the highest rated items and did my own research, but to no avail. Has anyone else had or having this problem or predicament? I know patience is required, but this seems a bit long to wait. I want to experience a prostate orgasm and am needing some help, tips and assistance. My anal dildo is 5” of insert length, do I need it longer, wider or just keep this length? Thank you for your help.
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Firstly welcome to the club. / i help my husband in this situation by pegging - and he says it’s all about the angle- not length
The dildo rubs over the prostate when in about 3 inch (so the dildo you use should be fine)
I suggest trying a curved dildo - this may help
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Welcome to the forum!
As batjamboree mentioned the length is fine, it’s all about angle and actually hitting the prostate during thrusting. I agree that a curved dildo might help to target the prostate during thrusting (compared to a straight dildo that you would have to angle/target more specifically). Hint - I find that G-spot targeted toys can also work well for targeting the prostate/P-spot! Since they are in relatively similar locations for each anatomy.
I myself have never really been able to get a prostate orgasm from just one of the vibrating massagers etc., usually from thrusting for a long enough time at the right angle to hit the prostate over and over! It still isn’t ‘easy’ for me to reach a prostate orgasm, everyone is different and some people may get them easier than others. It definitely takes time and patience so don’t get discouraged!
I find it can take me at least 30min-1hr of prostate stimulation/hitting to truly get a prostate orgasm, and also don’t stimulate the penis during it unless you just want a blended orgasm (instead of prostate orgasm). Also, prostate orgasms can be quite different than penile orgasm in the sense they are not necessarily going to be ‘explosive’ all the time or at all, like when you finish regularly. I’ve heard it described more as a ‘wave’ of internal pleasure/climax.
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Welcome to the forum sir! 5” dildo is more than enough length to reach the prostate 
Out of curiosity, what do you imagine an orgasm to feel like as many men tend to get mixed ideas on what to expect and then when you see these orgasms happen in porn, 90% of the time the man overly exaggerates it for the camera…
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Thank you all for your help and welcoming to the Forum. I do have a curved anal dildo (which I bought here) and have tried a variety of positions with it to see which feels the best. Is a way I can do this solo or do I need my partner? Thanks again.
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