My boyfriend has been taking an SSRI for a while and really struggles to ejaculate, in fact he hasn’t for a few months now. We have started to look at other methods and I wondered if I could help and to try and massage his prostate to release his semen. I’m happy to do this for him with a toy and he seems willing to try this at this point. Does anyone have any experience or this or can suggest a suitable toy to use.
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Hi @newbiejen if you use the search bar above and search for prostate milking or prostate toys it should come up with a few thread posts that have lots of information in there.
I’ll try to copy and paste the link into here.
It should hopefully help him. I’ve been with my wife for 20 years and we started anal prostate play with me about 5 years ago probably. I haven’t been able to achieve the hands free all body prostate male super orgasm but have enjoyed trying.
I have medium and large butt plugs.
I curved p prostate butt plug would be good. I wear and use an aneros progasm curved butt plug and their are similar ones on Lovehoney.
I also use a Lovehoney 7 inches glass curved dildo which helps me milk my prostate.
If he’s new to anal play just need anal lube I use Lovehoney anal lube. Lube a finger and use it. Lube and use a small or medium butt plug. I’m 6ft 2" and quite large so I always use a medium butt plug or above with a flared secure base. Good luck.
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Has your partner ever had anything in his bum before? Consider this when choosing a toy and size accordingly. Don’t go too big if he’s new to anal play.
You don’t need to go too deep inside his rectum to locate the prostate. Start with a massager or slim dildo with a curve and ensure the curve is pointed toward the front wall of the rectum (ie toward the belly button) to help locate and stimulate the prostate.
As Fire_ice said, do a search as there is several threads on this topic with some great info and details of folks experiences.
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This was me in university. It DEFINITELY helps with SSRI problems. Could go from struggling for 20 minutes with just hands to using some prostate toys and if i really push it going in under a minute. What’s your budget like for toys?
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That’s good to know. Budget is fine for the right toy or multiple toys.
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I’m in the same boat I’d say and actually it kinda helps but not always yet the feeling of it all is very satisfying either way!
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I have used our pegging dildo and slowly started riding it as i started it felt great and cum just started leaking from my…
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Hubby is in the same situation from medication. We have used the Aneros toys and a slim vibrator with a large bulb on the end for this and they seem to work.
Hubby has never been into backdoor play at all and was not excited at the idea but it is beneficial in this situation. It doesn’t seem to take too long and we have figured out the right spot to massage on him. Normally I put a condom on him and start massaging in there and it’s not too long before his cum starts to flow out.
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I have spent a considerable amount of money on prostrate massagers and none were all that great . I found a firmer dildo much better and cheaper . For me I find that between 3" to 5" inserted back and fourth and side to side works best for me . I produce much pre cum and if I stay with it will also produce cum . Without penal play , it just oozes out which is better for not wasting any if either of you like to consume .
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I agree with you Oldman, having tried a few things I find this dildo is just as much fun as the specific prostate toys we have from the Ignite range.
Even better when my o/h is using it as designed for. I know many would think it too small, but it is more than enough for both of us to enjoy.
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I prefer firm plastic like the Aneros Progasm Ice or LH 7 inches glass beaded dildo. Haven’t tried steel yet.
A comfy silicone butt plug is fine but for prostate milking I need something hard.
I would prefer the Aneros Progasm to be about 10% bigger in all departments but fuller and 0.75 to 1 inches longer insertion length as my prostate seems to be a bit deeper inside me than the average.
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My favorite “toy” in my butt is her finger! She moves it up towards my balls and rubs my prostate. She’s done this while sucking me and a couple times while giving me a hand job. This has litterally caused me to groan without any control and made my legs bend at the knees. I cum soooo good!!!
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