Hi, thinking of teying some anal toys. I can make my wife orgasm hard and id like the same for myself. Ive got cock rings and they are fun. Where do i startwith prostate toys?
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Hi @Sam9 there are lots of threads here on anal play if you have a search. You could start with trying some of your OH’s toys to see if you like anal play. There are then lots of toys to target your prostate. Perhaps a simple non vibrating silicon prostate massager before you try a vibrating one. The world will be your oyster. Start small and see what you like.
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Thanks, im new so just trying to figure everything out
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Perhaps something like this to start
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I was looking at that or the one with the cock ring aswell. I kinda like the cock rings. Do males use butt plugs to warm up
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I have the one with the cock ring as well it’s great. Use it for sex and solo play. Yep I use butt plugs for warm up, sex and solo play
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Ive never done anything anal related before. Bit curious and slighty unsure
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I am sure you are curious and unsure. Try popping a finger up your ass in the shower or bath just to gently experience what it feels like
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I would suggest try a small/medium buttplug or prostate massager as a first toy. Like @CandB_Toy_Story suggested by try inserting a finger in your ass to experience what it feels like, before you buy a toy. When inserting your finger you can try and fond your prostate and start rubbing it while playing with your cock. When you orgasm you will experience that it will be much more intense.
When playing with toys keep in mind to start small and use enough lube, and if you think you have used enough lube add some more.
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I too have some interest in prostate play. I have had the laser surgery on my gland, so do not know how that would affect the sensations, if at all. I have tried a little butt plug a couple times, however it probably did not hit the right spot.
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If I had been previously only probing with my fingers, would this size be too extravagant in comparison? Cause I think I’m still a little tight.
Suggest you search a diagram of male plumbing , understand what and where you are searching . And keep in mind , like all of human anatomy everyone varies . I also suggest a small tee plug with plenty of water based lube to start with , learn to relax . I have wasted considerable money on prostrate massagers . Even if the design is good , none stay in , at least for me . I also often ran into a problem with dimensions between the attached cock rings and my anal opening . They tended to pull out the insertable piece . For me a We Vibe egg works very well . One of my favorite ways of milking my prostrate is a 6" to 9" suction mount dildo mounted on a vertical surface at the right height so standing it penetrates me a little high . Then with thrusting and raising and lowering , I get a good milking . If lucky I may also get a load of cum also . I also have been using external massage . One recommended way is to use a tennis ball on a hard chair and roll it along your taint . I use the narrow foot board of my bed , right at edge . Very convenient and easy . I am currently in process of making a holder that will stabilize one of the aforementioned massagers in place at an angle while having a pad ro rub my taint . If successful , I will milk from both sides at the same time . " Happy Tails " in your discovery !
There is alot more to it thwn i thought
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Have learned a little over the last 23 years since my wife introduced me to anal penetration while pretty drunk and we were doing the 69 and abruptly she slid a finger up my back side . She said she had wanted to for years , but until the liquor loosened her up , she could not muster asking .
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