I’m not a prostate owner, but I will say that when it comes to stainless steel toys… just do it. Do it, like, yesterday.
I have a curved stainless steel wand (sourced elsewhere and at a fraction of the price of nJoy), I regret nothing. It’s not just the sturdiness when it comes to stainless steel - it’s the coldness and weight that can add to your chances of explosive orgasms, too.
Incidentally quite fun if you’re into/curious abouf a medical roleplay
Shockingly I can and did read, I’ll let YOU off because it’s Monday and you probably didn’t realise that even though you confirmed my choices in a bratty way it was all I was looking for (confirmation) so thank you and I hope @mikeormick has more toys for thought.
What is your position when playing as sitting down with the wand is a challenge I would have thought. One I’ve used with sub male and female is a doggy style where it is the wand they control but due to the dangling nature of genitals and gravity whey also are stimulated while moving the wand back and forth.
So I went ahead and bought this. It’s seriously powerful if you turn it all the way up! I’ve only used it once so far, and it felt really good, but not quite hitting the spot just yet. I found some good advice online about how to use it, so think I need to try it in different positions and work on being relaxed and in the mood to get the prostate to fully cooperate.
What I did notice, however, was that the day after, just walking around or even sitting at my desk working, I kept getting the feeling/sensation that my prostate was being stimulated, and it felt really good! Reading up on this, it seems that the prostate has to be trained/woken up, and it definitely seems to have helped with this.
Late to the party , but have you looked into external stimulation ? After seeing a video by a dr about using a tennis ball while sitting on a firmer chair . Place it under your parinium and move slightly forward and back . I tried some variations by using a number of different items and found it quite nice . This works pretty well and can be used while dressed , but naked is preferred . I have been thinking about sacrificing an old dildo and cutting it in half to use and see how it works . I have found internally virtually all of the alleged prostrate massagers are not vary impressive , no matter how much I paid for them . My biggest complaint is they tend to come out unless given much attention . My favorite internal prostrate massage is I use a suction dildo to a vertical surface at a height to use while I stand . Prefer a more firm dildo . After warming up , I can get very active by changing the angle up and down and side to side . I produce super impressive amounts of pre cum and have managed several prostrate orgasms . It is a shame I can not post a how to video . Any way , do not forget external stimulation ! Trial and error , until you find what feels and works best for you . Happy massaging everyone !