Amazing!! Well done!! Very happy for you!!
Sooo so good! Even when thought it was done I jus relaxed in a euphoric state of mind n I started the cum started flowing againā¦will defo be trying it again shortly! Massive thanks to everyone on here who has helped me with advice. Truly the best bunch on here, hope I can help others in some way too
Iāve recently got the njoy wand after seeing quite a lot of reviews and comments on here. Tried it out for the first time and felt really good but didnāt get to the magical Super o. I think I have a patience issue as I had a couple of waves where I felt like something was going to happen but maybe tried a bit too hard and wanted it too much that it just faded away both times. In the end I grabbed my fleshlight and went crazy which felt amazing when I did orgasm but I wish Iād carried on with the wand on its own.
My session was probably about 20-25 minutes or so. Iāve seen a few comments saying itās 45 minutes or more. Is that really the case the first time? Iām guessing once you have the right technique then you can super o quicker?
I think in the same here ⦠Iāve tried a few times with my Njoy, but whilst some nice feelings and a bit of āmilkingā, not quite got thee yet.
I always was impatient! Xx
R xx
That is very exciting to hear, congrats on getting an Njoy wand Ahh donāt worry, it will honestly happen after more practice (and patience Iām afraid). Thatās a fun end to the session though haha!
Yes that honestly really is the case, my best advice (based on what youāve said) is:
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Donāt try to go faster to get to the prostate orgasm faster, youāll actually do your fastest during the prostate orgasm itself, slow and steady WILL win the race!
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Do try to block off an hour of time where you can 100% focus (no distractions) just on yourself, making sure youāre only massaging your prostate AND that youāre as turned on as you can possibly be (or the prostate wonāt enlarge)
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Donāt be upset or down if it doesnāt happen, enjoy the journey, which ironically is the key for giving yourself a prostate orgasm
Good luck!!! And it will happen
Just to clarify - when you say lift up and down once its in, you arenāt moving it in and out then? It is just the up and down like a lever?
That is correct, itās a vertical up (if youāre lying on your back flat on a bed, vertical up means that it presses against your prostate, which would be located on the interior wall above the inside of your anus) and then back down
Ill give it a go next time - thanks! Ill try that. Its very easy and tempting to pull in and out - I find that more challenging than touching myself and need more patience to pull up and down like a lever.
Iāve also experimented with lying down on my back, and then putting my feet against the wall - not sure if that was this chain I read that in, or elsewhere. The closer my feet are together - and the more firmly flat they are against the wall makes my legs shake in a way that adds to the overall feeling of moving closer towards orgasm.
Iāll keep on at itā¦
100% putting your feet up against a wall is amazing as it positions your body into the perfect angle!!
Good luck!!
Iām still searching for that P spot orgasm so have been reading up on this thread for tips
Thatās great and definitely do ask on this thread if you have any questions about reaching that prostate orgasm??
Itās not easy but once you get there the first time itāll then be like riding a bike
Itās all about finding the right angle that works for you
I donāt think I am flexible enough to lay on my back and get my feet flat on the wall. When I use the Njoy cum just starts and drips out I am not having an orgasm when this is happening. Do you do that also?
Thanks for the info
A night last week I had an amazing hour with my toy. Eased it in n didnāt start going proper with the vibes for a while. You really need to be in the mood for it for it to work. After 40mins or so I was in pure elation. I didnāt fully reach an orgasm but I was ejaculating āpre cumā for literally 20mins or so. Best feeling. Iv had the orgasm once n best orgasm iv ever had in my life. Keep looking, itās worth the search
Only had a couple one on a solo session and one whilst receiving a deep hard pegging from OH using 10ādildo in me and a bullet vibe on my balls
The njoy wand isnāt a vibrater is it? How do you use it solo for prostate? You have to move it around constantly to hit your prostate or does it do it itself?
Yes I 100% have that too! So that is a wet ejaculation, and if you have one of those you are (I find) VERY unlikely to have a prostate orgasm, as your body is getting rid of all the fluid that would have otherwise led you to have the prostate orgasm!
So I find, when I am getting close to having a wet ejaculation while doing prostate masturbation, I slow down to purposely not ejaculate and once that feeling subsides I start back up again working towards that big full body prostate orgasm!
Yep I use the njoy for prostate masturbation, I just hold it and very slowly move it up and down against my prostate! If you do that for long enough (and if youāre in a very turned on mood) thatās when the magic starts to happen
I donāt think I am ejackulating it is more like milking the prostate and the cum just drips out .
I have just ordered Njoy wand!!! Waitting for it!!!