Just had a great session. Over 2 hours with more dry orgasms than I could count. Seemed like endless pleasure at my finger tips.
After a few years of trying, I think I’m finally getting a hang of pleasuring myself via prostate play. I enjoyed many full body waves of ecstasy that made me moan out load.
That sounds amazing!! Awesome!! 
So what’s your best advice for how to get to those dry prostate orgasms now that you’ve worked out how to do it??
I find the following routine works well for me:
To get things going, I like to start off with anal using my hismith machine. I have a beaded anal dildo that works really well at stimulating the prostate and anus. I prefer doggy position with my body against the bed for support. Seems to hit the right spots. Using the. Machine, I find slower patterns provide the best stimulation for me as not to get sore. Use lots of lube. I’ll usually keep at this until I have pre-cum dripping 
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Once I feel stimulated enough, I’ll switch to the Njoy wand for targeted stimulation. I prefer the small end. I’ve figured out the key is not to go to deep and I know when I’m hitting the prostate as I often feel the sensation of needing to pee. I find sitting on the wand with my bum propped slightly forward works great for quickly locating the right spot.
I like to start with using light pressure, rubbing on my pspot. As sensation builds I like to increase the pressure and speed of stimulation.
After a while, I find I have the feeling almost as if I need to pee and feel pressure in my penis and rectum. Continuing stimulation I often begin to dribble cum but no formal ejaculation. Contuing on, I begin to have intense sensations that radiate outward from by rectum, anus, and groin spreading through my body. I have been able to replicate the extremely pleasurable sensations almost at will and endlessly by continuing to vary the pressure and speed of stimulation. The sensations feel like a building of pressure and pleasure that when peaking almost feel like a strong bearing down as if having a very pleasurable poop (sorry for being graphic, but best way I can describe).
I hope sharing the above helps others on unlocking this powerful source of pleasure. Cheers.
That’s very helped thank you very much for sharing!! What is a “hismith machine”?? I’ve never heard of that, is it worth the investment?? Can you prostate orgasm from that by itself??
The hismith is an electric thrusting sex machine used for vaginal and anal penetration.
Holy smokes. After being a follower of this thread for years, it finally happened. Here’s what I learned and my process:
Toys of Choice:
Lifestyle Prep:
This was the biggest change to my success. I would have sessions using the Purewand, both Aneros and the Hugo, be relaxing and trying to make something happen out of it with no success. Then, after being fed up, I would take care of myself the normal way with whatever toy inserted and then head to bed. These orgasms would be great, as I would feel contractions while orgasming mashing against my prostate, but they would always end at ejaculation. So, I made the decision to stop trying for a prostate orgasm. This is where my success came from. I focused more on reporgramming. Reprogramming is a real thing. Instead of trying for a prostate orgasm, I switched over to using the Pureplugs and Aneros Prograsm around the house or while taking a shower just for the sensation. Once I was comfortable with them and I would feel good and relaxed, I would take them out and just get used to the feelingleft by the massaging of my prostate (and lack there of once removed). Rinse and repeat, no orgasms after those sessions, and honestly, it still brought pleasure once removed. The big learning that the Pureplugs and Progasm bring over most other smaller toys,is that they taught me to be able to relax my muscles as I had no fear that the toys would fall out and listen to the sensation of my prostate.
Prep right before:
I took a shower to start to relax myself and used the Aneros Progasm while I was in the shower to start to decompress and lube (plenty of it!) This part is all about getting into the mindset.
Actual Session: After the shower, I whipped out my handy dandy Purewand and as I was already prepped from the Progasm, went straight on with the larger end of the wand. I started face down (doggy style to insert) on the wedge, and then once inserted flipped over to my back with hips in the air due to the wedge. Purewand was curved up at this point in time. Since it had been so long for trying for an prostate orgasm, this time I focused on just pressure and listening to my body. I think a big peice that is missed when using a vibrating toy / trying for a prostate orgasm is that we are chase for the orgasm, rather than just listening to the body. Also, I forced all muscles to relax (especially the sphincter muscles ie think of trying to open up to the toy). Insertion depth for me on average through the session was about 3 inches. I used one hand to hold it there and to be honest, did not move it at all from that point, so long as I felt just a little bit of pressure on my prostate. From there, continue to relax your muscles. There were times in the session in which my muscles would semi voluntarily contract, and it was important for me to force myself relax that. Naturally, the njoy continued to slide into me until it was around 6" in. I slowly worked it out and then my arms started to shake and I had a massive convulsions and thought something wrong happened. I am going to use @Cumalot82 's saying of
This is pretty important to keep in mind as I was not ready for that. First prostate orgasm was a wasted one 
I reset after this, again just focusing on the building pressure of the Purewand against my prostate and forcing myself to relax my sphincter muscles. As I feel the pressure staring to build, I continued to force myself to relax, which brought more uncontrolled contractions and allowed the orgasm to continue to build.
Mindset during the session:
My mindset honestly was just to relax. I wasn’t terribly turned on, my focus was just listen to my body and in a dream like state. I was focusing on what scenarios turned me on, did not have any visual stimulus, just my thoughts.
The sensation:
This is the wild bit. Take everything you know about a penis initiated orgasm and throw it out the window. This was a complete full body orgasm for me that honestly started in my fingers and then went throughout the body. My fingers tingled, then started to shake followed with my arms, legs and then full body shakes. After the second orgasm, I focused on relaxing and adding pressure during the orgasm to my prostate which allowed me to extend the orgasm out to about a minute and a half (it felt that way at least). Naturally I would mash the purewand against my prostate, so I would force myself to relax my muscles to keep going. The focus of this was for me to prolong the orgasm, and honestly I stopped the orgasm by removing the pressure, rather than the orgasm stopping itself. I stopped the orgasm by pushing njoy slightly deeper, so I ended up having some convulsions when I was taking the toy out at the end. The ending of it was wild too. Unlike with a penis initiated orgasm of which I immediately feel tired after it for a few minutes, this was the opposite. I was wide awake, alert and ready to hit the ground running (as well as you can with a Purewand still inserted).
TLDR: Patience is everything, don’t rush it and don’t expect results immediately. Learn to relax both mentally and your muscles. Focus on the sensation of pressure on the prostate as it starts to build.
Shout out to @UKlovingcouple for all the tidbits!
Amazing!! So happy for you and that sounds incredible!! Now that you’ve unlocked prostate orgasms for yourself you’re going to be able to keep doing them so well done for putting in the hard work and not giving up!!
I need to do some catching up. Sounds like people have been having amazing sessions. Definitely going to use that tip of wearing an Aneros more.
I’ve been doing some more reading on the Pure Wand. Apparently using it the opposite way round really works. So basically putting it to where it feels good as you usually would with the curve following your crotch, then turning it 180
I’m happy to say that my pspot play continues to get better. Have enjoyed several masturbation sessions this past week where I experienced 10+ pspot orgasms each time. A combination of play with dildos switching to my Njoy wand, I have dialed in how to stimulate my prostate experiencing numerous full body orgasms, both dry and wet. The pleasure this gives me is phenomenal. Really am enjoying this newfound pleasure.
This is an interesting topic as anal play in straight men can still be taboo
I’ve head that several times male squirting think mine is more pee though but hopefully I’ll get a hands free dry or wet super orgasm one day. It’s not through lack of trying! 
Yeah the taboo surrounding men enjoying anal play is unfortunate. I didn’t start playing with ass until in my 30’s. I’m glad I decided to try. It took me several years to readily achieve pspot and anal orgasm but the time invested was worth it. The pleasure Ive had from anal and pspot play has been phenomenal. Full body orgasms that keep coming and coming.
Yes I don’t think I got into anal play until my late 30s, been trying for a few years now to achieve the hands free whole body male super orgasm and will hopefully get there soon but in the meantime rimming, prostate milking and anal toys help to mix up our sex life and my solo time.
I started with a prostate vibe then switched to the Njoy I had a little bit of prostate fluid dripping out. But I never did cum. I switched to a vibrating sound and just as soon as it touched my prostate I started to cum. So ending pretty good.
@UKlovingcouple, hi and thanks for all you detailed info.
I know you say the Lelo Loki Wave 2 is the best prostate super o toy you’ve used and even better than the njoy pure wand.
can you use the lelo loki wave 2 on just the cum hither thrusting motion or does it need to have vibrations on too?
with my solid firm LH 7 inches glass beaded dildo I can sometimes get lots of pre cum semen coming out and it feels great and I think I’m on my way to prostate orgasm but pee comes out (I don’t think it’s male squirting just pee even though I’ve been to toilet before and during).
Lately I’ve tried lots of vibrating toys.
Rotating / thrusting / inflatable / all of them vibrate. With vibrate on and off they never seem to get the amount of pre cum semem like the firm LH glass dildo does.
I was hoping the inflating butt plug would expand press into my prostate then the vibrations would carry over the finish line but after a few tries it hasn’t yet.
A thrusting forwards and back toy vibrate on or off tried in a few positions feels great but again not as much pre cum and even after using it for 40 minutes or 60 minutes still no sign of a p spot orgasm.
I know some men day they prefer non vibrating toys and just big weighty heavy ones like the njoy pure wand.
I’ve probably only got a few more prostate sex toy purchases left as seems like I have bought and tried a fair amount so far and just trying to weigh up aether the njoy pure wand or the wave 2 might be the best option for me. Cheers 
Hello @Fire_Ice1 and they are good questions!
With the Lelo Loki Wave 2 I used a combination of the come hither function and the vibration function, it is 100% the cum hither that does the job and makes you have amazing prostate orgasms, but the vibrations do add to it so I always have some vibrations going on, but without the come hither function it would definitely not be anywhere near as amazing a sex toy!
Hmm about your glass beaded dildo, the big key with having a DRY prostate orgasm it to avoid having WET prostate orgasms (this can be either quite a lot of pre-cum or, I’ve had these too, basically where it looks like pee coming out as you have the wet orgasm) so I would recommend trying to avoid/slow down when you feel close to this as avoiding the wet orgasms is the best way to have the massive dry prostate orgasms!
I agree, vibrating is not an important feature (and can sometimes distract from working towards prostate orgasms).
Hmm from what you’ve said, my main advice would be:
Are you directly the sex toys on the prostate?
It took me a while to find this out, but the prostate is literally an inch or two inside the rectum, so MUCH less deep than I originally expected and it is properly located upwards (which is why the Lelo is really amazingly designed as it hits that spot exactly). I would recommend in your next session to make sure you do not go deep and to try to find that prostate spot (which only enlarges when you are very turned on, you won’t orgasm unless you are very turned on, that’s a key point too).
Do let us know if you have any questions and GOOD LUCK!!! You’re almost there, having wet orgasms is only one step away from the dry prostate orgasms!! 
Will do @UKlovingcouple yes I’ve tried my toys 2 inches in, 3 inches in, 4 inches in, 5 inches in. I find just in I can’t feel it with my finger or toys and get no pre cum so think mine is a bit further in.
If 6ft 2" with long fingers bit can’t seem to feel it in and up towards my belly button.
Will try a real slow relaxed session where I don’t aim for pre cum and see if just having something quite big in the area gets me there.
Failing that might go for njoy pure wand or wave 2. Thanks.
Has anyone used this prostate product - Lovehoney High Roller Remote Control Rotating Prostate Massager ?
Is it discrete (quiet enough) to be used at work. To confirm i work on my own.
Do you think it would be possible to put in and get pleasure whilst working?
Thanks
Hi, I haven’t used that particular one but have used similar and they can be fairly noisy. As you work by yourself the noise might be OK depending on whether you need to concentrate focus or make phone calls it might be a bit noisy for that but you could try. If it’s too noisy then just use at home.