Awesome too! Definitely do report back your progress in pursuing this tricky but incredible goal haha! 
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I had the fortune / misfortune of getting a prostate exam both by the GP and a student.
I was far too nervous, utterly mortified and wouldnāt dream for it to become inappropriate but I was curious if Iād know when they hit the spot. I didnāt. They both claim to of found it and detected no oddities, with the student describing it in great detail to prove she had it, but I didnāt feel a thing so have no real idea where it is.
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thanks for the advice. The other day I tried my glass anal bead dildo again and manually massage my prostate for several hours to no avail. While at times I thought maybe I might be working up to something I never really got anywhere with it.
I use plenty of lube and set several hours for myself. Clearly the head and fully relaxing is another story as I have some personal things going on right now, but even when I could fully relax I couldnāt put myself over the edge.
do you have any more ideas as I at a loss right now. Pretty much tried everything
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Thank you for sharing, hmm my main thought is are you rubbing the prostate? Itās very easy to miss it, are you confident youāre hitting the right spot?
Itās an inch inside and enlarges as you massage it
Also, is your dildo curved? Curved dildos are much much better for prostate massaging as they much easier hit the spot
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Yes very confident. After a while it swells and gets firm and precum leaks out but no orgasm. Iām starting to think Iām one of those people who canāt have prostate orgasms
yes it is curved
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Ohh awesome! Thatās great to hear, a big tick there! Hmm are you building up pressure and (this is important, tricky, but absolutely key for prostate orgasms) using the muscles in your body to āpushā your prostate out against the dildo? This feels slightly like pushing out the muscles when you go to the toilet, but importantly itās only you pushing out your prostate out (putting this bluntly but clearly, you should NOT push poo out of your anus in doing this).
As an analogy, if you rub your tongue with your finger, now use the muscles in your tongue to even harder push your tongue against your finger, which in turns heightens the intensity.
Itās doing this prostate āpushā that is how I have prostate orgasms and itās essential for prostate orgasms every time I try!
Does this make sense?!
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Yes sometimes I feel a bit of pressure but again never goes more than that. Never thought about pushing out prostate though.
I think my prostate just isnāt that sensitive. But I keep trying, to be honest itās a bit of a disappointment every time I donāt have one. Really wanting that full body experience
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I think this could be the missing piece of your puzzle, if you donāt actively push back your prostate against your dildo as you rub it youāre unlikely to have prostate orgasms and this is exactly what took me a lot of attempts to learn!
Itās once you start to feel your prostate get enlarged and doing pre-cum that you can start to use your muscles to āpushā your prostate back against the dildo, it does feel similar to doing a poo, but importantly itās not that, youāre not pushing for a bowel movement, youāre pushing your prostate out so that the pressure of the massage is even stronger and thatās how you reach those prostate orgasms!
if you try this, you should know in 1 or 2 min if you start feeling the next level of pleasure and that itās working, itāll feel obvious and then (importantly) you have to keep massaging your prostate harder, faster, wilder, really going for it and at some point THATāS when the prostate orgasm will happen!
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@SnEm and @CandB_Toy_Story the above point about āpushingā your prostate against the pressure of the sex toy will be vital for when you try to have your first prostate orgasm this year too!
For me, this was the missing step for quite a while, but once you work this out thatās when the magic can happen!
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Appreciate the tips @UKlovingcouple 
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I have had an orgasm twice from my female PCP and Female urologist while they were checking and examining my prostate. Both were also trying to collect semen from me at the time. This happened years ago and I was so so! Embarrassed afterwards because I ejaculated from what them was doing to me.
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From the sounds of it, I donāt think Iām hitting it. When I go deeper though and work out again, I do get some cum leaking out of my penis and it feels good, but nothing like an orgasm. I keep going on that spot but get nothing else. Iāve tried thrusting, massaging, putting more pressure, less pressure. Iām stumped ha ha. Iāve tried thrusting toys, rotating toys, pelvic floor muscle and pegging with a toy that aims towards the prostate. Iāve tried vibes, no vibes and at times itās felt ok, but again, nothing like an orgasm.
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From what youāve said my best guess is that youāre an inch or two too deep, the prostate is surprisingly not deep inside the anus and you do have to tilt your sex toy up as itās tucked around inside your anus.
The next time you try aim a lot less deep in your anus and try on that spot, hopefully youāll surprise yourself and discover it!
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Are you getting yourself aroused before trying to find your prostate? I find for myself that it helps being aroused before play as the prostate will swell and become easier to find.
As @UKlovingcouple said, you should not need to go to deep into your bum. If using a toy, focus on stimulating the front wall of your rectum toward your penis. You should know when youāve found your prostate as the sensations should be more intense. Having the I need to pee sensation and noticing dribbling pre-cum/fluid is a good indicator youāve found the right spot.
For me I found that toys such as the aneros line do little for me and same with vibrating massagers. I need firm stimulation directly on my pspot with a dildo to get the best results.
Itās all about experimentation. Also donāt expect mind blowing results immediately. It can take a while to start feeling pleasure. I often need 30+ minutes of stimulation to really start feeling a high level of pleasure.
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How long does it take you to achieve these? Iāve never managed to achieve orgasm this way
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I always set aside for myself at least 45 minutes for a prostate masturbation session, and thatās after years of experience! It does take a long time!
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Same, for me to really start feeling intense pleasure, stimulation can take up to an hour. Thatās why I love my fuck machine. Just get in a comfortable position, lube up, slip my dildo of choice into my bum, and let the machine fuck me silly.
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I just gave myself one today using the njoy. This time I decided not to have any porn on etc.
I used the njoy and got myself going with my free hand. Then I just gripped by cock at the base and kept working the njoy on my prostate. After a few minutes I was feeling that warm fuzzy feeling. Its weird as I make all the same expressions and noises as my wife would when I am working her gspot. It is like an intense build up that is very much like a female O build up. Then when it arrives it carries on for much longer than a normal orgasm.
It feels so good!
I had not done it in ages but I must do it again sometime soon. Best to leave time in between, I found the effect wears off if you overdo it.
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I think I experienced my first prostrate Orgasm.
As recently as a few years ago, I realized that a finger in my ass felt good. And especially very good when focused on my prostrate when receiving head.. my OH plays with it more externally then internally. Sheās used toys in me, painfuly I may add. But the teasing part of it was fun. She would spend an even amount of focus on my cock and balls She would bring me close anally, but Iād take over to put it in her to the finish line. Iāve tried solo quite a few times, never achiving p orgasm, Iād finish by stroking n yanking. Donāt get me wrong, all the above situations felt great and I had powerfully releases. Breathless everytime.
Last night, my OH took me to a different sensation, different level. After I emptied my balls, (or so I thought), she began to play with me. While still soft she inserted dildo in my butt and tried to vibe my prostrate. ā¦ once she got me erect with her mouth, the sensations changed dramatically, she then completely ignored my penis, squeezing my balls, vibing mostly prostrate. The vibrations were mild yet the teasing of prostrate was intense. During this time im laying on my back, legs spread, flag pole at full mast, completely neglected. OH had toy going in all the way in to the base and out, in and out, she had me wringing around, humping the air, humping toy beneath me, in me her hand thrusting. She then focused tip on my erect feeling prostrate. (First time I felt this, but I swear my prostrate swelled up). Im moaning, directing her. Cock thusting air. I think I gripped both sides of the bed. I mean this build up was like no other.
Then it happened cock still untouched, twitching and flexing, uncomfortably. Thin watery milky fluid seeps out. Though I feel the pumping internally but its just oozing, for what felt like a full minute My sphincter contracted, gripping dildo, body tightened up. Ive never moaned like that, ever. Ive been on recieving ends of ruined orgasms and weak frenulum orgasms. But this reminded me of one of those multiplied by 50.
Was that a super orgasm? If not, I dont think I can obtain super, without a heart attack. Lol. That was at least 20hrs ago and im still mesmerized and feel like good traumatized, if thatās a thing . Wondering how playtime will be tonight.
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@Noone1
Well it definitely sounds super 
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