That is definitely a sign that you’re on your way to a prostate orgasm!!
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Will get bk on the case so
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Hahaha amazing! 
Do ask on this thread if you have any questions, you’ve managed to get to the moaning bit of prostate massage which is great, finding the tricky and specific way through to a prostate orgasm is the last hard bit to do, but it’s 100% worth it!
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Good luck @Usedtobegood
Give yourself plenty of time and remove all distractions, just you and your body reactions. Hone in on yourself and hopefully the magic will happen for you. 
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Good luck!! Do message on this thread if you have any questions! We’re all happy to help!
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Hope you don’t mind if I chip in with a few observations which you may or may not find helpful. I’ve been using Aneros products for a good few years now and have many models. I still find the one that gives me the best results is the smallest one I own, Eupho Trident. It’s smaller size allows it to move around much more than say Progasm Ice which I also have but seldom use. Patience and having no expectations also helps. I took me about 6 weeks of absolutely zero results before something clicked. The first time I orgasmed it was unbelievable and to be honest a little bit scary because I wondered where it was going and if it would actually stop. Also, to help reach your goal and be able to achieve prostate orgasms, try not to touch your penis during a session, and build up the alternative pathways to pleasure. The goal is to reach orgasm but not ejaculate, and these orgasms last for minutes at a time and one follows another. I know it’s very very hard to ignore your penis when you are feeling the urge but it is important. Every time you touch your penis you are confusing the signals. Try to stay relaxed and just breath, and enjoy any sensations that come along, don’t be discouraged. The effort is definitely worth it. If you have sensitive nipples, give them a go too, nipplegasms are awesome. With practice and patience I can now enjoy P O’s just by manipulating my internal muscles with no tools inserted. I would love more guys to discover this gift that we have but don’t even realise. Good luck
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I have found that the toys from Nexus are great. I love the Simul8 for partner sex and the Stealth for foreplay or solo play. Both have given me mind blowing blended orgasms.
They are both a little pricey, but I found with most things sex toys, you get what you pay for.
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Thanks, I’ll give them some thought!
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I got an Njoy recently and I can say it definitely hit the spot in a way no other toy I have tried does. It is heavy, that’s taking some getting used to. I havent managed a wet or a dry orgasm from using it by itself. Yet. But I can definitely see why it would get you there, some more practice for me. Will let you know how I get on over the next few weeks
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The njoy is incredible!! But heavy haha 
Have you tried very slightly (not a lot) warming up the stainless steel metal under a warm tap before? I read that advice before and that really does help! Also, if you are using the big (or small) bulb end, you only have to pop it inside the anus a little bit (literally an inch or two) and then once it’s fitted inside, you do not have to go any deeper inside then that, the key (for me) is pulling it upwards towards the prostate and then letting it drop/rest back in place to where it started, an inch inside!
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Delving into this a bit more! Had a great conversation with my wife recently about a little bit of anal play… She’s literally only just come round to the idea of stimulating the anus hole, but I’m hoping prostate stimulation is the next step.
Does anyone have any advice for a couple wanting to explore prostate stimulation? What are the best products for the wife to use on me? There seems to be a lot of plugs, but I quite like the idea of my wife using something on me to manually stimulate the prostate… does that make sense?
I’ve only gone as far as using my own fingers to stimulate my P-spot which feels amazing, but awkward! can’t wait to try something bigger, easier and more intense!
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Amazing!! We’re a married couple who got into this area a year ago and have loved it, definitely exciting new territory!! 
I think the hard part is that learning about the prostate, how to massage it etc. is pretty hard so I’d recommend you trying toys on yourself that you’re holding first (so that you can find out how it works and where feels good) first or else she’ll be giving it a go without knowing where to look for the prostate!!
I have an Aneros and njoy, they’re both very different but amazing, ones heavy and you hold it, the others hands free! Happy to help give advice depending on which one you like the look of?
Also, are you both more interested in pegging (anal sex) or prostate massaging as they’re actually very different things??
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Thanks so much for the reply.
Prostate massaging is the goal for now.
The njoy looks incredible but a bit out of my price range I think… I’m wondering about one of the aneros ones to get me started.
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A really interesting read through the entire thread and given us some ideas. We are yet to get fully up to speed with pegging but getting there and really into prostate massage. Just another way to have stich fun either each other.
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Ahh amazing!! Do have a read through this thread as there’s loads of advice and ideas for prostate massaging! I personally have the Aneros Progasm Ice Prostate Massager, which is amazing! But… as the Aneros is handsfree, it is pretty difficult to get used too!
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That sounds fun haha!! It is fun to do with a partner!!
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It’s really good and really does just add yet another level of fun and interest.
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Tried to reach the prostrate orgasm on several occasions with no success. Used fingers …. Which get tired ! And toys.
I have found pleasure with it and dribbled out lots of clear pre cum. But end up getting frustrated or tired with position / strain on hand etc.
Thanks for lots of helpful tips and time to buy a new toy I think and try again 
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Similarly I have had several attempts ( over 10) to achieve a prostate orgasm with my fingers without success. I think I got near on one occasion. Tried again today but couldn’t get there. Got some solo time tomorrow and Wednesday so setting aside some more time to try again. Also going to have another go with one of wifes vibrators, if I can get it in.
So frustrating as now I am caged and resisting masturbation from self touching I was hoping a prostate orgasm would be a substitute. Either way I won’t allow myself to masturbate my penis until my OH allows.
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One of the best toys I’ve found for this play is sadly not available on LH. It’s called something like APlay and they have vibe ones and rimming ones, but mine has a piston that thrusts inside the toy. The toy itself doesn’t grow or thrust, but the piston does give a very solid thumping feeling, right where it counts (hence why we call it Thumper!).
It’s remote controlled, which I usually give to Sexterminatrix, and has about an hour of play time on a full charge. When activated, it gives me uncontrollable core contractions, which can continue for up to a minute after the toy has been turned off. to be honest I’m not sure if I’m experiencing a prostate super-orgasm or what they refer to as a “coregasm,” but either way it feels amazing and the abs definitely get a workout, so win-win!
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